Girls and boys read!!

[Emilio13]

Ok so I want to know what a girl looks for in a guy please helps and guys what do you do to get a girl to notice you.

[vegangurl03]

for me, someone sweet and funny and interesting. not shallow and loud and obnoxious like a lot of the guys out there. someone unique and special.

[Sogeking]

:arrow:Relationships and Dating

Also, results may vary, what you would like in a girl would probably be different than my preferences.

[Syntax]

If you want a girl to like you, forge friendships first. Its the best way to know what a girl looks for in a guy and if you want to get a girl to notice you, just be yourself.

[Emilio13]

I have tried to be myself, but it doesn't do anything when I comes to getting a girl to even know I exist..

[Emilio13]

I have tried to be myself but It hasn't worked to get a girl to know that I even exist..

[Empty Spaces]

It depends. How do you mean " I've tried to be myself".. you don't have to try, just be who you are. I'm sure you'll find someone, and don't be like "oh i have to find a girl".. it just happens, spontaneous.

[Emilio13]

When I said "I tried to be myself" I ment I was acting like myself but I just get nervous

[Hatsune Miku]

for me, someone sweet and funny and interesting. not shallow and loud and obnoxious like a lot of the guys out there. someone unique and special.

This.

If a girl wants anything more, then I say don't even bother. Don't worry about being nervous, some girls think it's cute.

[AlexTorkin]

To get a girl to notice me? If they have a Facebook, I either Facebook stalk them to find their interests or ask around for those who know. Then I try and get their attention that way. Such as... my current girl interest. She likes Harry Potter, and I'm obsessed with the series. So I wore my Gryffindor scarf and was sure to hang around her. Just as I had planned, she saw my scarf and told me it was awesome. We ended up having a long conversation and are now good friends.

[dmeek7]

I have tried to be myself but It hasn't worked to get a girl to know that I even exist..

Be outgoing while being yourself. Be funny. Girls like funnyness, but don't be stupid. Don't be one of those guys who act rude to try to be funny

[Sterling26]

to get us to notice u, spend time around us. its a psych thing called the mere exposure effect, we like people we spend more time around more

[jockguy14]

Be friends with the girl first, that way you can tell if you guys would get along well as a couple. Be yourself, there's no one else to be. Just play it cool and calm. A lot of guys get too extreme if a girl doesnt like them. They'll love them one minute, hate them the next. Go along with the flow.

[Jupiter]

Jerson said exactly what I was gonna say. So yeah, every girl is different. Like a piece of popcorn. But females are better than popcorn:)

[paradox]

1. confidence
2. Confidence
3. (I'll say it again) CONFIDENCE!!!!!

You've gotta be comfortable with who you are and you gotta show it. Don't let rejections get you down, just learn from them and move on. Likewise, you'll never know if a girl will go out with you or not until you ask so you have to take a risk. If she says no, HER LOSS (that's kind of the attitude you have to have, sounds arrogant but that's how you have to think, only more casually than my all-caps display, lol).

Confidence isn't about being able to carry out 5-hour long conversations, it's simply allowing more of your personality to become apparent to others. By becoming more confident, you don't change anything about yourself, just how you want others to see you.

Hope this helps!

[Abyssinian]

I personally like a guy who loves to smile and laugh, and who let's me be myself without judging! Being quite a strange person sometimes, I appreciate the latter a great deal!

Someone easy to talk to with similar taste in movies is great too =)

If you like a girl, just become friends with her and be yourself! If she likes you for what she sees then, that's awesome =)

[paradox]

I'm seeing a lot of advice that says to become friends first, although that may seem like a good strategy, I personally have had a bad experience with this. I got stuck in the friend zone quite a bit and got pretty frustrated when I asked out one of the girls that I was already fairly good friends with. They all said that they just couldn't see me as anymore than a good friend. Luckily, there's no awkwardness between me and any of those girls anymore and we're still friends :)

But if you want a relationship, I personally suggest asking out a girl that you havn't known for very long. You want to know more about her, she wants to know more about you, so that should be enough to get the ball rolling and see where things go from there. I tried it, it worked, and with a little luck she happened to be the perfect girl :)

Disclaimer: I'm not saying becoming good friends first is a guranteed "friend-zone-failure," I'm simply speaking from experience.

[Triceratops]

I like guys who don't lead girls on and aren't a complete and utter dick, but to be honest that's a rarity.

Every single guy I've ever liked in my life never likes me back so fuck them all.

[John Marston]

Not all girls like the same thing, so you gotta become her friend first. Then start to gradually increase you're friendship. When you're close with her, just start asking her questions about who she might like or what she might look for in a guy. And if she asks why, you could just say you know a guy who likes her and you're looking to see if she'll like him or something.

[Emilio13]

I've had the same problem with the friend zone thing thats why I don't get how to make them notice me as more then friends