How do you lead-into sex?

[paradox]

Hey, Ive been going out with my girlfriend for about 9 months now and we're both 17. She's really sweet and a little shy, especially when it cones to sex.

There is quite a bit of sexual tension between us, but I'm not entirely sure how far she actually wants to go. The thought of sex has crossed my mind a few times but I don't want to come across as pressuring her.

Any ideas on what I should say to get her to be a little more open about talking this out? How should I introduce the idea of sex to her?

[AmusedDJ]

try to get into a conversation and slowly talk about things leading up to sex

[Abyssinian]

How far have you gone with her already? Making out, grinding, anything?

You could always just straight up ask her, how do you feel about going all the way?
Just be sweet and kind, let her know that when she's ready, you are, and if she isn't comfortable with it just yet let her know that you'd never pressure her. Once she knows you're okay with that step, she'll know what to do when she's ready =)

[LuckyLuke]

How far have you gone with her already? Making out, grinding, anything?

You could always just straight up ask her, how do you feel about going all the way?
Just be sweet and kind, let her know that when she's ready, you are, and if she isn't comfortable with it just yet let her know that you'd never pressure her. Once she knows you're okay with that step, she'll know what to do when she's ready =)


Perfect.