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JamHaychUK
October 29th, 2011, 11:33 AM
Recently, a long-time friend of mine decided to come out to his group of close friends (myself included) that he is bisexual.
Most of us are fine with it, but as expected there's one person who has a problem with anything to do with liking other guys.

The difficult part is that he is also one of his closest friends (the three of us spent most of high school together), and everyday since he came out, the tension between the two has gone up.

Is there any way to try and calm things or make him more understanding, before things fly off the handle? :confused:

(Apologises if this belongs in the Friends and Family sub-section, if so feel free to move it)

ExhibitG
October 29th, 2011, 05:31 PM
tell the person who has a problem with it to grow up and get a life. why should they care at all about other people's personal lives?

Sterling26
October 31st, 2011, 10:25 PM
maybe do something to like shock him, just show him ur on the other friend's side and u won't stand for how he's acting

nameless12
November 1st, 2011, 12:51 AM
honestly theres not much you can do, if thats how the guy thinks then thats how the guy thinks. the least you can do is just try to convince him that why would he care now that he knows he is bi and not before?, your bi friend is still the same guy, you should tell him that.