Xandle
October 29th, 2011, 06:38 AM
Ok, I have 2 questions, but to answer them, it may help to read this first:
So, I'm 15 and male, and I have this friend who I masturbate with sometimes during sleepovers. It started about a year ago, and we've done it about 5 times since then.
What happens when we do it is that when we're the only ones up, one of us suggests masturbating, so we get in our sleeping bags, and get undressed. We then reveal to each other the fact that we're naked and masturbate on the top of our sleeping bags so that the other person can see everything. We then put on some "visual aid" and begin as per normal. We'll often talk as we're doing it, and it's probably worth noting that we are both straight.
What I want to now do is move on to having some sort of contact with each other. I know that this is normal and that it doesn't mean anything. Personally I want to only give him a hand job, and even though I fantasize about a blow job, I'm sure that if it came to it, that I would want to, so the furthest we'd be looking at going is about that far. I'm just not really sure how to ask him? Because I'm afraid that if I ask him if he wants to do that stuff that he might think I'm gay and not want to do it with me anymore, which would really disappoint me. So how on Earth do I ask him without risking it too much?
Thing is, that I've asked him before. When we first did it about a year ago I asked him very quickly and briefly if we should do it to each other and he said no so I left it, but now I'm thinking he could've changed him mind??
Also, he's never used lube before so I was thinking of introducing it him, and I know he's ok with it because I asked him.
Also, I was wondering if there's any sort of game we can play? (NOT SOGGY BISCUIT) Just a game between us... just, any random suggestions? Preferably no touching as it's an alternative for the above...
So, I'm 15 and male, and I have this friend who I masturbate with sometimes during sleepovers. It started about a year ago, and we've done it about 5 times since then.
What happens when we do it is that when we're the only ones up, one of us suggests masturbating, so we get in our sleeping bags, and get undressed. We then reveal to each other the fact that we're naked and masturbate on the top of our sleeping bags so that the other person can see everything. We then put on some "visual aid" and begin as per normal. We'll often talk as we're doing it, and it's probably worth noting that we are both straight.
What I want to now do is move on to having some sort of contact with each other. I know that this is normal and that it doesn't mean anything. Personally I want to only give him a hand job, and even though I fantasize about a blow job, I'm sure that if it came to it, that I would want to, so the furthest we'd be looking at going is about that far. I'm just not really sure how to ask him? Because I'm afraid that if I ask him if he wants to do that stuff that he might think I'm gay and not want to do it with me anymore, which would really disappoint me. So how on Earth do I ask him without risking it too much?
Thing is, that I've asked him before. When we first did it about a year ago I asked him very quickly and briefly if we should do it to each other and he said no so I left it, but now I'm thinking he could've changed him mind??
Also, he's never used lube before so I was thinking of introducing it him, and I know he's ok with it because I asked him.
Also, I was wondering if there's any sort of game we can play? (NOT SOGGY BISCUIT) Just a game between us... just, any random suggestions? Preferably no touching as it's an alternative for the above...