Guys grabbing others guys butts...

[tyler17OKC]

So today we were standing as a class together taking a photo when this stupid football player whom I don't like starts grabbing my a** and squeezing it. He did this to many others as well. I don't like being involuntarily touched, I need to be able to see them touching me. Any way so I was very uncomfortable with this, he also did it many times.

Why do some guys do this? Is there anything I should do?

P.S. many of my good friends saw him doing this and agree with me that it's uncomfortable.

[TurboDieselBandit]

From what I've experienced, many guys do it because they are "curious" or possibly in the still in the closet but rather than come out and say their intentions, they "hint" to other guys that they like them or are curious. Usually thats when you see them touch another guy in a joking sexual way.

If it really bothers you, I would suggest you casually let him know in private so he gets the point but doesn't get his feelings hurt in the process. Thats just my opinion.

[jaden6]

I do it to all the other football players on my team but never any one out if the team.. I do it because its just one of those things we do on the field. Ask him to please stop>

[IamJimmy1992]

My main group of about 15-20 people are all comfortable doing things like that. We don't see it as being 'Gay' or anything like that it's just a light hearted joke and we all know there is nothing more to it. Sometimes it's just a slap on the ass as you walk by, some times we might do a light grab of each others package for like 2 seconds when you walk past. No one gets freaked out it's just a joke to us, no one has ever gotten pissed off about it just a quick grab and that's it.

[AustinFB]

I'm in my school's football team and it's almost always more of a pat or slap on the ass, im not gay and I don't see it as gay.

[tyler17OKC]

I can understand a slap or pat on the ass, but he squeezed my ass for several seconds multiple times. To me it's a bit bizarre as he doesn't ever talk to me.

[blackpo]

i have no idea because all the guys in my PE class do it to one another but when it comes to touching someone of the bi or gay sexuality is rarely happens

[ShotgunShells]

Turn around and slap him across the cheek (face, not butt) with a girlish "ugh!" that way if he was joking it would be okay cuz everyone would think u were joking and he would probs get the message

[thomasgj]

i think it's just teen guys being immature - i doubt it's his way of hinting something. but, hey; anythings possible!

[Drew7]

okay, that's just crazy. id just give him a look of confusion.

[Polishbum]

my friends and i do this all the time, and we do a lot of stupid shit like this. for example yesterday we got drunk and we started to hump each other

[Trinity_15]

idk probs hormones. tell him you dont like it

[aussie.boy]

typical footy boy, probs circle jerks aswell :P

[anubisgodofdead]

I play on the football team and instead of being like good job dude and hitten their sholder I'd slap their butt. It's just something guy football players do and what you should do is just get comfortable and do it back to him

[stuo]

My main group of about 15-20 people are all comfortable doing things like that. We don't see it as being 'Gay' or anything like that it's just a light hearted joke and we all know there is nothing more to it. Sometimes it's just a slap on the ass as you walk by, some times we might do a light grab of each others package for like 2 seconds when you walk past. No one gets freaked out it's just a joke to us, no one has ever gotten pissed off about it just a quick grab and that's it.

Me n my freinds do this also

[darthreilly]

ha seriously... chill. my entire football team does this all the time and some guys end up like massaging each others ass cause theyre pretending to be gay. i do it to the guys on the team too so its not a big deal ha

[hotteengeek97]

all of the guys on my sports teams do this all time it sorta takes the place of girls hugging when they come off the court or field.

[ImCoolBeans]

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