Very sticky situation...

[beebs]

Im in a bad situation at the moment. I have a boyfriend, who im breaking up with next time i see him anyway, because i like someone else, and now this other guy has told me he loves me and dumped his girlfriend for me.

I really dont know what to do?

[arthur1]

Look at each individual guy and see which one you prefer. Then let the other two down gently just saying that there is someone else. If they are decent people, the should understand.

[Ambrosia]

You shouldn't date someone just because they say they like you. That is completely silly and illogical. Just stick to the original plan, and date the guy you know you like, who you were planning on dating to begin with. The kid does not love you. Love is a careless word, especially since you two are so young, and you don't even know each other that well yet. If every girl dated every guy that said they liked them, this world would be a horrible world full of so many heartbroken single guys. No one would ever be married because we would be too busy breaking up with potential husbands to date the next guy that says "Baby, I love you!"

[supadupahitz]

Date the one you like, not the one that said they like you. It has to go both ways.

[Bob_]

I think the other guy is somewhat crazy for hurting someone just to attempt getting to you, assuming he'd do it again with no second thought. As they said, the one you like. If that doesn't work, talk with the guy I just called crazy (Lol). Whatever you want, not what they want in a situation like this.

[Donkey]

Who do you like more? Don't use boyfriends as just something to have for the sake of it - they have feelings too! If you really believe that you would be unsatisfied continuing the relationship with your current boyfriend knowing you like somebody else more, then maybe it is best to end it. If you're both happy as it is though, and you probably won't be happier with this other guy... don't end it.

My real opinion? If you need to ask questions like this you are not mature enough for a relationship. You need to be able to make these decisions - you need to care about your partner enough to do what's best for them too.

[logan fields]

i think if someone would hurt someone to have you then its also possible that they will hurt you to have someone else so be careful. my dad always tells us what goes around comes around. hope i said that right

[Amaryllis]

Lexi's right. Just because someone says they like you, doesn't mean you have to like them back. He dumped his girlfriend for you, well, that's not your problem. if you don't like him, say no, he'll live and move on to someone else. Or maybe no one. But whatever he does, it isn't your fault.

If you no longer have feelings for your boyfriend and/or you don't want to be together, break up. There's no point in being in a relationship you don't want to be in.

You like someone else. Is he the guy you most like? If he is, go for it. What's the worst that could happen? You get rejected. It isn't the end of the world. Respect that and move on.