One sided love?

[Fushigi]

ever experienced it?? well for me yeah, many times.. all i can say it's a really hard situation to be in.. i wish i can tell that person what i'm feeling.. but i know i can't and it will just ruin our friendship and i don't want that.. and i know that the person i loved the most won't feel the same way to me.. :( what can i do to move on??

[ImCoolBeans]

I'm sorry that you're in this situation. I've been in it before and I know how it feels. The best thing you can do is start talking to other girls and try not to think about her. It can be hard - but if you really want to move on you've got to do it.

[Ambrosia]

In all honesty, why not try telling them? Don't tell them you're "in love" with them. But tell them you have feelings for them, and like them. It won't kill you to try, honestly. Life goes on even after a rejection, and it's worth a shot to try.

You never know! They might actually return the feelings. You don't know until you try, you can't really just say that you know they won't.

[Fushigi]

I'm sorry that you're in this situation. I've been in it before and I know how it feels. The best thing you can do is start talking to other girls and try not to think about her. It can be hard - but if you really want to move on you've got to do it.
yeah i know... but it's hard.. and the worst part is.. he's a guy..

In all honesty, why not try telling them? Don't tell them you're "in love" with them. But tell them you have feelings for them, and like them. It won't kill you to try, honestly. Life goes on even after a rejection, and it's worth a shot to try.

You never know! They might actually return the feelings. You don't know until you try, you can't really just say that you know they won't.

but what if you don't want to lose your friendship with him... should i take the risk of losing our friendship, just to tell what i feel for him?

[Jupiter]

You know what? Yes I have. like... 3 times this year..

[ThatScience]

In my opinion, these one-sided, unreciprocated romances happen far more often than observation of other couples would suggest.
I've experienced this EVERY time.
I mean... What's the likelihood of two people sharing equal feelings for each other?
The slim odds are too overwhelming to think about sometimes. :/

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

Ive had this situation so many times! Actually starting to think that no one will ever love me back. Guess we have to stand up and move on, cus one sided love it never good

[botwa]

I've experienced this situation when I fell in love for the first time.
It's really terrible. I felt down for a really long time but everybody just have to move on after all.
I personally believe that even in a relationship one side loves stronger than another one. It's just how it's supposed to be. One loves and another lets him love you.

[Kaius]

I've had this a few times. Though every time it has happened is at the end of a relationship with them. I develop deeper feelings, they lose theirs and move on. I know it hurts but the more you dwell on it the more it will hurt. Its hard to even look at another girl at first, everything is going to remind you of her but it will get better. You'll find another person who will care for you back. You'll find someone better, just like I and many other people have.

[Dunce]

To be honest, this is the only love I have ever felt.
I suppose, if you really really like them you should tell them, or try flirt and see if they respond. But if you value their friendship more then I'd say find someone else or just try persuade yourself out of it.
There's no simple solution, and I'm sorry if that wasn't helpful.