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Hank Hill
October 26th, 2011, 08:22 PM
So, I have a problem. Here it is:

It seems to me that every time I talk to a girl at school, I feel like I end up looking and acting like a dorky loser. My personality is what makes me crazy and a little hyperactive :P and I act like that around girls. I feel like I'm giving off the wrong kind of vibes, because I usually don't get positive reactions or negative reactions, mainly just neutral. Like I'm just there, and whatever I do doesn't really matter.

However, whenever I'm around this one girl that I like (and never asked to the dance, if you pay attention to my other problems I constantly keep coming to you guys with :D ) it seems to be like I'm afraid to be who I am because I won't get a reaction from her. What's up with that? I'm like "nah...she wouldn't like if I was crazy right now." so I just don't do anything, and then I really feel like I'm just there, but don't really contribute much to anything.

I just wanted to know what's exactly wrong with my weird personality disorder! :D

Maybe I'm crazy, but thanks for the help.

~Tyler

nameless12
October 26th, 2011, 11:42 PM
i say you shouldnt worry about it :), im the same as you, i act really crazy and do funny stuff with friends around, and they laugh at what i do... but in a good way, not the kind of way that they laugh at you XD. you should just be who you are and not give the impression os something that you are not. sooner or later if you dont keep your true self hidden, someone will like you for who you really are ;) so dont worry and be who you are.
i wish look my good mate :D

Ambrosia
October 26th, 2011, 11:59 PM
Here's the thing. You can't do that whole acting like someone else thing. You're never going to find a close friend-let alone a GIRLFRIEND-that you can be happy with if you make them believe you are someone else.

There is nothing wrong with your personality, you just really need to try and act like yourself. Just don't go all super jump around screaming like a banshee crazy. Just act like yourself. Be calm, cool, and collected. Or be crazy, and collected. :) It will make life easier in the long run if you cut out all the fake stuff ahead of time.

You have plenty of time in the future for girls anyways.

Hank Hill
October 27th, 2011, 08:36 PM
Thanks for all that advice fellas. XD

Helped me out a bunch. I'm stickin' TRUE to MAHSELF :D

~Tyler

Eagle63
October 28th, 2011, 03:37 PM
bro, im a little off my block too. if she won't accept you for who you are, she's not worth the time. Try finding a cutie who's a little off her own block, so you can laugh at each others' craziness. Trust me, there's plenty out there. I know ;)

Jupiter
October 28th, 2011, 03:44 PM
Exactly what Lexi said. You gotta be yourself. Someone will like you the way you are. :)