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[youtasd]

I'm 14 years old shy boy , and I'm a bit of worried what my later years would look like..
I like to watch porn , I get turned on everytime I see hot girl and then I imagine me with her and well I'm afraid where it will get me to.
I can't just come to a girl and start chatting with her , or as some others do just come to her and start to poke/bug her in a way she likes..
I only had a gf 1 time , and it was pretty bad as we didn't talk to each other and well broke up after 2 weeks :s
So anyways , I'm unsure how I'm going to get laid ( Which is a thing I really want , as my friend already did this and well I really want it.. ) if I'm shy and think almost all the time about this..
Thanks for reading hope for future replies with advices..

[scott757]

Daniel,

All I can say is your 14, don't worry about getting laid, you have your whole life ahead of you ;)

[SportsNutChase]

Hey dude, dont worry about it. I was and still am a shy guy but things change when you get a little older. You will gain in your ability to talk to a girl. Trust me you will. Im kinda fighting them off now and I didnt think I could ever even speak to a girl never mind they would want me. Im sure your a good guy and others will see that too. For now just use your mind and you can date and have who ever you want when you need to. I did for years and ended up dating a few. TRUE !

[youtasd]

I hope so but I just lost a chance of telling a girl that I love that I love her , now she's going to another school and well , kinda sad atm. I just can't understand why i'm so shy and at the web/in games I'm friendly and talkative.

[Thanatos]

Well with web and games its much easier to be outgoing as 1. You never have to actually see the people, and 2. Theres a good chance you wont see them/talk to them often.

Talking to people, especially girls, is a tough thing in life. It all comes down to gaining confidence in yourself, or being an extremely good bluffer. The first thing to do is to start by wanting to genuinely get to know the people, not just looking to get laid which I can say at 14 is meaningless.

[youtasd]

Another question , to the all 14-15 guys out there. Did you see a naked girl at your age?
How many girlfriends did you have till now?
Thanks for reading , I hope I'm allowed to ask that.

[Foamy]

14 never had a GF. Never seen a chick naked(cept in porn,of course!) but don't worry about getting laid. But u can imagine it, I guess.

[Eclipsical]

If youre the same when youre like 18...then it's time to worry. Just chill and learn yourself.

[Drew Tyler]

I hope so but I just lost a chance of telling a girl that I love that I love her , now she's going to another school and well , kinda sad atm. I just can't understand why i'm so shy and at the web/in games I'm friendly and talkative.

It's easier to be yourself when nobody is looking at you! Like singing in the mirror/shower. I was very shy when I was younger. I hated it so much. But, I had a lot of friends, however, they were all through other people I knew, not by me making them myself. Then 1 day, I said enough is enough and I broke free of my crippling phobias. It took some time but, I managed. You just need to do a lot of self-talk and get yourself motivated to be yourself ANYWHERE!! You can do it, I did it!! Just take what you already know (talkative online, friendly, nice, funny, and sweet (whatever you are)) and apply it to real life.
About sex...don't let that be the main reason you want to meet a girl. This isn't the porn world! You're 14 and so when you find a girl she probably won't want to have sex with you right away. So, just let your main mental focus be trying to change being shy to opening up and being free.
I hope this helps you. If you need to chat or talk more, hit me up!!

[youtasd]

It's easier to be yourself when nobody is looking at you! Like singing in the mirror/shower. I was very shy when I was younger. I hated it so much. But, I had a lot of friends, however, they were all through other people I knew, not by me making them myself. Then 1 day, I said enough is enough and I broke free of my crippling phobias. It took some time but, I managed. You just need to do a lot of self-talk and get yourself motivated to be yourself ANYWHERE!! You can do it, I did it!! Just take what you already know (talkative online, friendly, nice, funny, and sweet (whatever you are)) and apply it to real life.
About sex...don't let that be the main reason you want to meet a girl. This isn't the porn world! You're 14 and so when you find a girl she probably won't want to have sex with you right away. So, just let your main mental focus be trying to change being shy to opening up and being free.
I hope this helps you. If you need to chat or talk more, hit me up!!

That's a great tip , thanks!
However , not long ago I decided to stop being shy and well , didn't really work as I had just nothing to talk with her about. I think that's why I'm shy , I just can't find something to talk about with girls. With my friends I just chill and laugh since we know each other already for kinda long time , and we have same interests.
I feel like the only one which didn't have a gf or kiss in the whole region I live in..

[CaliLax]

i know this sounds pretty bad, but think of her as being...a woman...
lmao think of her being a lesser person than you and that should comfort you. no im not a sexist, but my friend tried that tip and it worked. Girls are predators who can smell a guys confidence from a mile away. just play it cool and confident. another tip, dont be overly into her.
Play it with confidence, and dont over pursue, and you drive every girl mad, trust me, it works every time i get with a girl lol