View Full Version : Want to tell my best friend that I like her, but dont know if I should.
nobodyimportant23
October 26th, 2011, 01:00 AM
Theres this girl I have been best friends with for almost six years...and I liked her a few months after we met, but back then I was dorky and weird...so she kind of pushed me to the side...we became close again a while later and we have been best friends ever since. I started liking her again this past summer though, but Im too scared to tell her, especially the fact that we are already so close it might ruin everything...plus I have no idea what is going on with her and her ex, because they broke up but they still talk all the time
syd1298
October 26th, 2011, 07:03 AM
We alllive our life with fear! you just need to go ahead and ask her! If she sais no, then screw her! she obviousl not worth the effort if she sais no! Just time it right, when she's not going out with oher boys and it will all be fine!!!!!
syd1298
October 26th, 2011, 07:04 AM
Just make sure you havnt had an argument before you ask her tho lol!
syd1298
October 26th, 2011, 07:04 AM
and if she slaps you, SLAP HER BACK AND SAY F U !!!! :D
syd1298
October 26th, 2011, 07:05 AM
Good luck :)
Carlyle
October 26th, 2011, 07:09 AM
Geez, quadruple post much?
Anyways, if your so close and don't want to ruin what you have, its really up to you. If she likes you that way too, it could get better. If not, it could make things a bit weird between you too. Whichever you prefer to do, best of luck to you.
alphus
October 26th, 2011, 07:51 AM
Hey man if you like her as much as you seem to be saying you do then go for it! The worst thing that can happen is you get rejected and stop speaking to her! Thing is if she decides to "disown" you as a friend then she's probably not worth hanging around with anyway :/ As for the ex, he'll see you as competition at worst so don't worry about him! The trick is to make this girl see you in a more mature light! A good first step would be to ask her out for a coffee :)
Foamy
October 26th, 2011, 02:08 PM
Go for it. Worst that could happen is her saying she's not into you.
rockman1
October 26th, 2011, 02:31 PM
i say go for it and if she sais no and or sais she has a boy friend then think she not good enough for you i had the same exspereance but she said no but your still freinds so i say just go with it and see what happends
xxJBTD
April 23rd, 2012, 10:38 AM
Hey, I had same problem before. I told my BFF that I like her but she said no. She doesn't want to ruin friendship. It was strange for some time but it's okay now. Idk, just think twice before you ask. ( :
xXl0sth0peXx
April 23rd, 2012, 12:21 PM
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