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NitoJuanito
October 25th, 2011, 08:32 PM
I have three bros and 1 sister. All of them get on my nerves, but the oldest one from my stepdad in particular i absolutely dislike. He's always making smart remarks, soing things to me in front of my parents and they dont say crap. Im the oldest. So of course i know that i should be the bigger person. but if someone degrades you everyday over a month in a half with your parents not saying anything and you tell him to quit leave you alone, and you can't do anything but get more pissed or blow up, which would you do? I have no one to live with, my real dad is somewhere in Tenesse, i haven't seen him since i was three, and im separated form my stepdads, one is in jail and the other can't leave houston) my grandma and mom live with each other. i need advice badly. :confused: :(
what should i do
StoppingTime
October 25th, 2011, 08:34 PM
What exactly are you trying to ask?
NitoJuanito
October 25th, 2011, 08:36 PM
what should i do, i get in trouble just for telling him to back up
StoppingTime
October 25th, 2011, 08:39 PM
I would do my best to ignore them. Do they even put any reasoning into what they say|? If not, then I consider it as a person you've never met make a stupid comment about you behind tour back.

How do they bother you? Specifically?
NitoJuanito
October 25th, 2011, 08:50 PM
theyve been calling me drunk in spanish, and when i otld them to stop that it's pissing me off they blame their cousin, they go and call fat ace ( they cant say ass) and mess with my bathroom things, like razor, my shampoo/soap and my tooth brush.if i have my school stuff down they'll go through itand find things in there that doesn't mean anything. they loos things that my grandmother bought for me, they spent 200 dollars on me and i never enjoyed because they lost and let someone pawn it
StoppingTime
October 25th, 2011, 08:52 PM
They just seem like a bunch of jerks.
Do you know anyone who could help you?
NitoJuanito
October 25th, 2011, 08:57 PM
no, i've been thinking about talking to the counselor though
StoppingTime
October 25th, 2011, 08:59 PM
Yes, I would try this. I assume a school one. They may not seem like help at first, but uf they see your problem as serious, I'm use they'd help you.
NitoJuanito
October 25th, 2011, 09:01 PM
thank you for the advice, i think it will me in the end
StoppingTime
October 25th, 2011, 09:04 PM
Yea, I really think it will help. I wouldn't do anything to your siblings though. That will only make things worse.
supadupahitz
October 27th, 2011, 04:13 PM
He probably only does it because of your reaction. Just ignore it, and after a while he will get bored and stop.