13 Years Old And...

[xColi]

I have been to my gfs house, friends house when she was there, two movies, park, lots of places when we walk around town. We went to the beach, on a train that doesn't move anymore, on top of a train, way back in the woods, a waterfall and we sat by the waterfall for a while and talked. We haven't kissed but we will anytime now I have held her hand all the time and put my arm around her. Is this bad to do at my age? I'm not planning on doing anything to her because each day I become more Christian is feels like. If you are in the 7th grade or anything around it and your talking to your GF in school and everyone is like "Oooooooo" and like "Nice", just say like why don't you talk to the girl you call your GF or just think 'screw it, tomorrow no one will care'.

[StoppingTime]

I'm not having this right now, but how old are you?

[Jess]

I'm not having this right now, but how old are you?

he's 13...I think

[xColi]

I'm not having this right now, but how old are you? It is in the title.

[StoppingTime]

Of course, I know *damn it*!

Anyway, like I said, I hvaent had this experience, but I'll put in my two cents.

What you're doing is fine. You're allowed to be friends with a girl without having sex. I think this perfectly fine, for any age. But, like you said, in my opinion, religious or not, I don't think it's right for 13 year olds to be having sex.

Your fine, don't worry. Kissing is OK in my opinion, but I wouldn't really take it far beyond that right now.

~StoppingTime/Steven

[secretly_secret]

Of course, I know *damn it*!

Anyway, like I said, I hvaent had this experience, but I'll put in my two cents.

What you're doing is fine. You're allowed to be friends with a girl without having sex. I think this perfectly fine, for any age. But, like you said, in my opinion, religious or not, I don't think it's right for 13 year olds to be having sex.

Your fine, don't worry. Kissing is OK in my opinion, but I wouldn't really take it far beyond that right now.

~StoppingTime/Steven

I totally agree. If I had a bf right now (big joke, i never would) I wouldn't even be kissing. I mean, dating is all about marriage, right? Or did some stupid teen thing mess that all up?

Seriously, man, don't take it too far until you're older.
IMO I don't think you should be kissing until you're engaged.

But then, I'm a homeschooled Christian sheltered freak, so likely no one will take me seriously. :P

[Ambrosia]

Dating at 13 is a bit early, but there is no reason why you two can't be close friends. Forget what kids say, make noises about, and all of that. You two don't even have to kiss if you don't want to. There is nothing unreligious about being close friends.

[White]

Just saying dude... God (As a Christian) WANTS you to be dating. He wants you to find the right one and find out what its like. So go ahead!!!

[botwa]

I think kissing is fine. Not having sex. I don't even mean French kissing.

[mirai]

good man

[StoppingTime]

If it were me, I'm not sure I would even call her my girlfriend at this age. Just me, but something to think about.

[syd1298]

wow, u r doing good for ur age!

[supadupahitz]

Just saying dude... God (As a Christian) WANTS you to be dating. He wants you to find the right one and find out what its like. So go ahead!!!

Seriously? God wants you to be dating? Wow, just wow.

[AmusedDJ]

yeah its fine. but dont go having sex and all. waay to far. but kissing is fine. its not like you get pregnant from it. *points* american dad!

[danny dangermouse]

When I was 13 I wanted to go as far as possible, I'd have had sex(protected) if I got the chance, but now as a 16 year old the thought of that is totally creepy. Just don't do anything you might regret mate :) good luck.