my sexuality

[cardo]

Hi guys, as we know we all go through puberty and so we have all sorts of feelings for just about everyone :p I'm going through that now and i had an attraction to my bestfriend, my question is (and i gather this may be impossible to answer) when do you stop having these mixed feelings and you know your sexuality, thanks james 15 :):cool:

[StoppingTime]

I can only assume you're 15, and have already gone through a good chunk of puberty. If not correct me.


Anyway, puberty stops between 18-20, but this should stop before then.

[rockman1]

well i say just go with what you think and if it dosnt feel right try something else that your think your feeling

[Sosaku]

stop thinking and feel...you'll know what you truly want...

[LuckyLuke]

I stopped having sexual feelings towards the same sex at around the middle of my 17th year, but it's different for everyone.

I always knew I was straight because I had sexual AND emotional attraction towards girls but it was sometime this year that I'd lost the sexual interest in guys all together.

Good luck and best wishes.

[cardo]

Okay thanks guys :) hopefully youre all right and everything should be fine

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

this should stop before the age of 18 if you are str8

[supadupahitz]

I think it's different for every person. I have always known I was straight, some people don't know for quite a while.

[Sterling26]

I can only assume you're 15, and have already gone through a good chunk of puberty. If not correct me.


Anyway, puberty stops between 18-20, but this should stop before then.

not necessarily true, im 17 n im still not sure, u'll know eventually though but dont put a cap on it

[AlexTorkin]

Yeah it honestly doesn't matter your age. I mean, it does but at the same time not. Just go by what feels right.

[cardo]

Okay i get where youre all coming from, I'd like to tell my bestfriend about this but I'm worried about how it would change his opinion of me, I dont want to label myself as gay or bi etc because it could change nor do i want to make him see me in a new light as it is, i would like someone to talk to about it but im not sure how to tell him...

[Foamy]

Then dont tell him about it. Let it die down you don't know if you're gay or bi or not, so dont make it a big deal.