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syd1298
October 25th, 2011, 02:21 PM
Hey Guys, this is my 1st ever post on a forum website before so I'm really sorry if this post is in thewrong place, just move it to where you think it should be please
Anyway, this is my question:
Just before I go to bed i Masturbate, normal right ?! I usually masturbate over pictures (and this is bassically the question --->)... . but the pictures are of my friends, male friends. And im a male too :s The pictures range from fully clothed with just their face showing to shirtless. The pictures really turn me on for some reason. Can anyone tell me if you do it and is it OK/ normal. Feel free to PM me thanks in advnce GUYS not Girls!! haha :yes:

Trzysta
October 25th, 2011, 02:57 PM
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syd1298
October 25th, 2011, 03:10 PM
@Trzysta Do you think its wierd that I use my friends as a substitute for porn? Do you do it too then?

Trzysta
October 25th, 2011, 03:12 PM
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syd1298
October 25th, 2011, 03:20 PM
Goodgood, didnt like thinking that i could be gay :)

Boxerbriefs96
October 25th, 2011, 03:21 PM
Yeah, dont listen to the negative people, but it is normal. Let me say that again: It is normal. You are horny and curious, algamate the two and you get a powerful potion, or emotion, I guess. Hormones is the name of the emotion/potion and it makes you do things that make your scratch your head well after you do it.

Trzysta
October 25th, 2011, 03:21 PM
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syd1298
October 25th, 2011, 03:34 PM
thanks guys, so just to make sure... It is normal to musturbate over pictures of your frinds shirtless and it isnt gay! COOL :-)

Can'tHelpIt
October 25th, 2011, 05:28 PM
Your Curious! bottome line

Brian12
October 26th, 2011, 04:32 PM
thanks guys, so just to make sure... It is normal to musturbate over pictures of your frinds shirtless and it isnt gay! COOL :-)

Good, cuz i do that too.

CaliLax
October 26th, 2011, 06:00 PM
im strait and have only been with girls. well im a virgin, but i have only 3rd based with girls... anyways, i can be curious at times also. its nothing to be ashamed of. i kinda grew out of it. ur totally fine, puberty can just be a bitch :D

CaptainObvious
October 27th, 2011, 03:39 AM
Hey Guys, this is my 1st ever post on a forum website before so I'm really sorry if this post is in thewrong place, just move it to where you think it should be please
Anyway, this is my question:
Just before I go to bed i Masturbate, normal right ?! I usually masturbate over pictures (and this is bassically the question --->)... . but the pictures are of my friends, male friends. And im a male too :s The pictures range from fully clothed with just their face showing to shirtless. The pictures really turn me on for some reason. Can anyone tell me if you do it and is it OK/ normal. Feel free to PM me thanks in advnce GUYS not Girls!! haha :yes:

you're 13, and nothing is for sure. however, if your male friends arouse you, and you often masturbate to pictures of them... well, if you were straight - which means only attracted to the opposite sex - you wouldn't do that. however, as before, at age 13 your sexual orientation is yet to be determined and you shouldn't be worrying about it. you also, however, shouldn't be calling yourself straight if you masturbate to guys a lot. that's not straight.

(and let's be clear, i say this as a gay guy who is totally ok with people being gay. but you gotta call it how it is.)

Goodgood, didnt like thinking that i could be gay :)

of course you don't like thinking that. very few young teenage boys do. that doesn't make you straight.

in any case if you were attracted to both guys and girls that would make you bisexual, not gay.

Jans33n
October 28th, 2011, 02:58 AM
Hey Guys, this is my 1st ever post on a forum website before so I'm really sorry if this post is in thewrong place, just move it to where you think it should be please
Anyway, this is my question:
Just before I go to bed i Masturbate, normal right ?! I usually masturbate over pictures (and this is bassically the question --->)... . but the pictures are of my friends, male friends. And im a male too :s The pictures range from fully clothed with just their face showing to shirtless. The pictures really turn me on for some reason. Can anyone tell me if you do it and is it OK/ normal. Feel free to PM me thanks in advnce GUYS not Girls!! haha :yes:

oh well, just I can say, I do it ..and makes me feel bisexual and you could feel the same...i think

Kenton225
October 28th, 2011, 05:09 AM
I went through a stage like that, it was a bit werid

PerpetualMotionSquad
October 28th, 2011, 07:01 AM
never done it but i am sure its just hormones acting up

syd1298
October 28th, 2011, 12:42 PM
ok guys, im not gay or homophobic. that is out of the question. seriously, i am NOT gay or homophobic or bi. Thank you for answering anyway....

supadupahitz
October 28th, 2011, 05:52 PM
Personally I think that's an abuse of friend trust, but that's just me. I wouldn't masturbate to pics of a female friend either, out of respect. Unless I told her she turned me on and asked if it was ok. Otherwise it just seems disrespectful and an abuse of friendship.

Jans33n
October 29th, 2011, 03:02 AM
ok guys, im not gay or homophobic. that is out of the question. seriously, i am NOT gay or homophobic or bi. Thank you for answering anyway....

ok well well, I also think they are just hormones, but can be a fetish

CaptainObvious
October 29th, 2011, 03:44 AM
ok guys, im not gay or homophobic. that is out of the question. seriously, i am NOT gay or homophobic or bi. Thank you for answering anyway....

sorry kiddo, but if you are sexually aroused by pictures of guys, you aren't straight, which would require you to only be sexually aroused by girls.

for reference, i am gay, and have never been aroused by a girl. that's how it works. if you're straight, you are only sexually aroused by girls. if you're gay, you are only sexually aroused by guys. if you are sexually aroused by both, you're some degree of bisexual. that's just how it is.

sorry that the answer isn't to your liking, but you'll figure it out eventually.