Help me determine my sexuality?

[curtmeister]

Can anyone help me tell whether I'm gay,bi, or whatever, i'll try and add as much information as possible.

So, I'm 15, and when I started looking at porn it was just gay. At first when I was younger I was curious about a guys penis, so i started looking them up to see images, and then as i got older things progressed, I was looking at gay porn. It's the only porn that really interested me. Its what I jacked off and still do like every time i watch porn.

Then after I started watching porn, I started getting curious about messing around with guys, one day with my friend things lead to another and we kinda messed around a bit. The thing is, I enjoyed holding his ----, but not really sucking it, i preferred receiving it. It was ok, not that great really. Well I did this a few times and i still felt the same, even with another guy, and it was ok, not amazing! I just didn't really feel it. But I still fantasize about and wanna be with guys.

Well on a few school trips, a few other people and I would watch straight or lesbian porn and masturbate under the covers. it took me ages, but when i came it felt amazing I dunno, I just really enjoyed it, maybe it was the experience more then anything. I still hardly watch straight porn though, it just doesn't seem naughty enough, and all the girls are too fake.

Then theres more problems, I have never done anything sexual at all with a girl, ever. I've never had the chance, and I'm scared to. BUT I think thats part of the problem, I don't know if its for me or not, because I've never fooled around with a girl...

What do you guys reckon? Can you give any advice?

[Spook]

I know this is going to disappoint you, but only you can decide your sexuality. We don't know you, and no matter how much information you give us, we won't be able to tell you. One day--it may or may not be today, or tomorrow- but one day you will know. Explore your feelings and see what feels right and wrong to you. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but it's the truth. If you are afraid, think about what could happen. What would happen if you kissed a girl? She might go off in a pout and not talk to you...but also she might kiss you back. In the love life, you sometimes- no always, have to take risks. But there is one thing, if anything; that is most important for you to know. If you come to the realization one day that you are gay or bisexual--it is not wrong. It is never wrong, and tons of people have the same feelings- even some hide them because they think it isn't right- or moral. But you should never feel that way, nobody should. :)

So, yes- your gonna get battered and bruised along the road- but one day you'll uncover who you are, and you will be happy with it. :D

~Caitlin (Nyra)

[Carlyle]

Well if you've never done anything with a girl, its hard to tell. To be honest, you could be bisexual and just lean more towards guys, but we can't really tell you for sure. You have to go out and figure out yourself. Good luck.

[tyrone]

I do think it would be hard to tell when you haven`t done anything with a girl maybe your curious?

[Drew7]

sample them all and then you tell us

[PerpetualMotionSquad]

i would say your bi but lean towards guys more. Welcome to the club :)

[pineinchneis]

Your in the same situation as me

[Sosaku]

stop thinking....if you want to go to the thread "Your Sexuality" It'll help you maybe, if not, then you are thinking WAY too much...Sexuality isn't set in stone like thoughts, (however thoughts can change, but there must be a reason, Sexuality doesn't necessarily NEED a reason, the same as your emotions, so just feel what you are...)

[MacMilker]

and all the girls are too fake.


omg A M E N

I would say try to date a girl, and try to date a guy secretly which is a lot trickier in theory but its worth a shot.

If you dont want to date a guy ever then I don't think you're gay or bi.