Being Completely Sure.

[The Madman]

For all you straights and gays and bi's out there. How did you know the you were finally ( insert sexuality here )?

For me I was very drunk and I got dared to kiss a bunch of my mates ( guys ) and so I did. It wasn't hard and I didn't enjoy it much. Made me pretty sure i'm straight.

[Zazu]

It took me about 5 years to realise I was gay after I started having 'thoughts' about the same sex.

I wouldn't say it was one single action / a notable group of actions which made me realise I was gay, it was more the realisation that I'd only ever felt deep emotional attachment to other males, never really females.

[Syvelocin]

About right after I first thought about it. Same for when I thought I was bi and same for when I decided I was gay. I've been relatively spoiled that way, no one has an issue with my sexuality (except for my ex-husband I should say) and I knew it almost immediately when I started contemplating it. Maybe I could have waited a bit longer, but like I said, when the idea actually popped into my head, it made so much sense and felt much more right than me being straight. I'm attracted to girls like straight men are attracted to girls. Except I just want to cuddle. I have no clue if straight girls are attracted to men the same way, because even when I was straight I didn't have the same kind of feelings for guys. So I don't know if that even makes sense. But anyway, I just sort of accepted it right off the bat without any emotional turmoil. When I made my post here on VT about being gay, I was already convinced even though I was seeking guidance and it had only been a day or so of turning around in my head.

[nameless12]

i found out im bi, since i had 4 girlfriends and i really did love them, but then i started to have feelings towards a guy, and then having lovely fantasys with the guy and really enjoying it. and even more when i had a second guy crush, then a third, and now a fourth... so yea, im pretty sure im bi :) its been2 or 3 years since i had my first guy crush.

honestly at first i kind of didnt want to like other guys, but then i got used to the idea on my mind and now i really like who i am :D

[Bufalo]

i hooked up with a guy at a party and totally felt secured and safe with him. ive been with girls and didnt really felt much but i hooked up with this one guy and felt something i never felt before.

[Ambrosia]

I have the exact same feelings for girls that I do for guys. Ninth grade. Lots of stuff happened that year, lots of life changing stuff. I don't ever label my sexuality. I'm none.

A void.

But I still feel for girls and guys in the exact same way.

[LuckyLuke]

I was asked out by a few guys, asked to experiment by a lot of guys and although the idea seemed appealing at the time, thinking about actually doing that act with another guy completely grossed me out and turned me off. And I've never been emotionally attracted towards guys but I've always been emotionally attracted towards girls.

Then I kissed my first girlfriend and really, REALLY enjoyed it. After that, even the remote sexual attraction to guys I somewhat had died out and I began to look exclusively to girls. I guess my first kiss was the assurance I needed to know that, without question, I was straight.

[Kaius]

Tbh.. I've never had any thoughts about the same sex or any real experiences. I suppose whenever I think about my future or things like that its always with a girl, its never been any different so ive never had any reason to think otherwise. If that makes sense?

[Fiction]

I'm pretty sure i'm straight.

I'm not going to like I have been vaguely attracted to girls in the past, but honestly I think that's just confirmed to me that I am straight. I've done things with girls too, and I guess I just never really got too much out of it.

I always imagine my future with a guy, and 90% of the people i've liked in my life have been guys.

[teenmanchester]

Well its really been 5 years since i first started delving into my sexuality and thinking about it and it all began because of a UK tv show called hollyoaks, watching a gay storyline on there really opened my eyes to homosexuality and ever since then i've become more secure with myself that i'm gay and i'm now ready to go to the next stage, coming out.

[twotall]

i found out i was bi when i was 15 i had a gf but i thought about one of my friends alot and mess around but i havnt found a guy yet. but i also havnt came out bc i dont know what ppl will think