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Bob_
October 24th, 2011, 12:50 AM
Okay, You guys have all known what's up so far with this, so I'll trust that someone knows my current situation.

Soooo, unsurprisingly, there's a girl. I've been friends with her, but nothing special. I don't know where it came from, but I kinda started to like her recently, even though I'm one to normally be against relationships. Unfortunately, she doesn't have the best view on relationships. I'm pretty sure she has that, 'highschool relationships don't last, anyways' mentality, which I don't think too much of. I think she's a fun, caring person, and nice looking.

Now to the big issue(s). I know that she likes(/liked) a guy, and I've talked to her about it. She said she likes a jerk who always hurts her, but she keeps wanting him. However, she's not very open with issues, and I'm not sure what her situation is like now. My biggest issue is that I can talk to girls no issue, but if I like them, I have this aweful tendancy to avoid them in fear of embaressing myself. She doesn't know I like her, and I'm not too sure about it mysef. But I'll admit that I'd like to see if I can get closer to her whilst avoiding the 'friend zone.'

I've been trying to arrange going to a haunted house, but we can't find rides. I know if I end up going, I'll try making a move there, and Whatever happens, happens. But if I'm unable to go, which is more likely, I'm not sure what I should do to convey how it is.

In conclusion.... WTF AM I DOING? I kinda just want people's opinions/ suggestions in that maybe I can learn to follow my own advice, or do something entirely new.

ImCoolBeans
October 24th, 2011, 02:59 PM
The friend zone sucks. I'm friends with a few girls that I wanted to date because I got stuck in the friend zone. Speaking from experience I'd suggest that you just be really straight forward.

Bob_
October 25th, 2011, 10:03 PM
Unsurprisingly, I've said nothing to her in days now... Wow, I fail. -.-

syd1298
October 26th, 2011, 06:31 PM
Just say something to her/him!!! Dont live life by fear! Fear just holds you back from LIVING YOUR LIFE!!

ryantombs
October 26th, 2011, 07:41 PM
i say straight forward...
im stuck in a friend zone with a girl im interested in and well if it stays like this for like another month or so im gonna come out and tell her i kind of like her probably
so yea i would just tell her if you cant get to a haunted house

Bob_
October 26th, 2011, 10:52 PM
Good at giving advice, terrible at folowing it... I'm just caught up with the whole thing about ruining a friendship. Ughh, How do I tell her? Like, it's just awkward saying it straight up... D=

supadupahitz
October 27th, 2011, 04:20 PM
Its funny how jealousy can put you back out of the "friends zone". I was interested in a girl who I was stuck at friends with, and like the minute i showed interest in another girl, she all of a sudden wanted more. Girls are odd.