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BOSS
October 23rd, 2011, 05:59 PM
Ok well there's this girl that I have a crush on and I would like to tell her that I like her but I'm to nervouse to. Now I have made her a drawing that says "I like you" But I'm not so sure if I should give it to her. And should I even tell her that I like her. Mom tells me that she thinks she likes me but idk. Wut to do.:confused:
Jupiter
October 23rd, 2011, 06:02 PM
Well, you should just talk to her, and just get into it .
BOSS
October 23rd, 2011, 06:10 PM
Well, you should just talk to her, and just get into it .
well just one problem I forgot to state this but when I do see her she's always with her friends so it is really stressful for me "and for her as well I would amagine" and she's a really shy and quite girl. And plus I only see her in one class "art" and I'm thinking the drawing will be a better idea.
Jupiter
October 23rd, 2011, 06:12 PM
do you have a phone? and does she? or facebook?
BOSS
October 23rd, 2011, 06:13 PM
do you have a phone? and does she? or facebook?
I do but she doesn't. :/ you see what I'm going through?
Jupiter
October 23rd, 2011, 06:14 PM
Well, write her a note in art, ask her if you can meet up with her. don't just write a picutre. do it in person, its a lot more classy.
BOSS
October 23rd, 2011, 06:17 PM
Well, write her a note in art, ask her if you can meet up with her. don't just write a picutre. do it in person, its a lot more classy.
I'll give it some thought thanks :yes:
Jupiter
October 23rd, 2011, 06:20 PM
Yessir. You have a nice night, now. You hear?
BOSS
October 23rd, 2011, 06:33 PM
Yessir. You have a nice night, now. You hear?
ok man u 2
LuckyLuke
October 23rd, 2011, 08:13 PM
Just throwing my two cents into the thought jar:
Perhaps a physical means of telling her isn't the greatest of ideas? It'd be very awkward and uncomfortable for you both if, and this is the worst case scenario, she rejects you and she's holding a picture you painstakingly worked on. There's physical evidence of the rejection and that's just not something you want to have. It's much easier to move around awkward situations if the only stock you take in it is words.
I'd honestly just gather the confidence and let her know- during art perhaps? Consider just saying, "Hey, are you free Friday? Want to go see a movie?". Something simple where the date is set and all she has to do is say yes or no.
Oh, and a picture/note is very reminiscent of elementary school and, "Do ya' like me? Check 'yes' or 'no'" notes and that's not a message you want to convey.
Jupiter
October 23rd, 2011, 08:15 PM
Just throwing my two cents into the thought jar:
Perhaps a physical means of telling her isn't the greatest of ideas? It'd be very awkward and uncomfortable for you both if, and this is the worst case scenario, she rejects you and she's holding a picture you painstakingly worked on. There's physical evidence of the rejection and that's just not something you want to have. It's much easier to move around awkward situations if the only stock you take in it is words.
I'd honestly just gather the confidence and let her know- during art perhaps? Consider just saying, "Hey, are you free Friday? Want to go see a movie?". Something simple where the date is set and all she has to do is say yes or no.
Oh, and a picture/note is very reminiscent of elementary school and, "Do ya' like me? Check 'yes' or 'no'" notes and that's not a message you want to convey.
This is also good. And congrats on the 500 posts, Luke!
StoppingTime
October 23rd, 2011, 08:22 PM
Ok well there's this girl that I have a crush on and I would like to tell her that I like her but I'm to nervouse to. Now I have made her a drawing that says "I like you" But I'm not so sure if I should give it to her. And should I even tell her that I like her. Mom tells me that she thinks she likes me but idk. Wut to do.:confused:
Honestly, like Luke said, a note seems like a elementary school thing to do. If you really do think you like her, just go right up and tell her. The worst thing that could happen? She says no, but you move on. It wasn't meant to be then. However, I doubt she'd just say it that way anyway.
well just one problem I forgot to state this but when I do see her she's always with her friends so it is really stressful for me "and for her as well I would amagine" and she's a really shy and quite girl. And plus I only see her in one class "art" and I'm thinking the drawing will be a better idea.
If you see her on the way to art, then ask her before she sits down with her friends. If you don't see her then, ask when everyone is leaving, and maybe she stayed behind. Or, if you are really feeling up to it, you could ask her right in front of her friends. Who knows, maybe she feels the same about you? You might as well just go for it.
Good Luck!
Jupiter
October 23rd, 2011, 08:26 PM
Tell us how it goes tomorrow!
BOSS
October 24th, 2011, 10:11 AM
Tell us how it goes tomorrow!
you'll have to wait I only see her once a week.
Jupiter
October 24th, 2011, 12:13 PM
ohhhh too bad :(
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