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green
October 23rd, 2011, 06:35 AM
So i dont get it. Girls just never seem to be into me. I am a nice guy, i try to be a gentleman and do things like hold the door open for girls and stuff. I am not the fattest dude on the planet, im fairly active, im a big outdoorsmen. and every girl i ask out says no. i dont get it. any ideas as to why this might be? I am unattractive or something?

Emiil
October 23rd, 2011, 07:11 AM
be confident. confidence is hot

andy223
October 23rd, 2011, 08:26 AM
be confident. confidence is hot

This. I like girls that are really confident and outgoing.

Timmy93
October 23rd, 2011, 10:01 AM
There is somebody or everybody just find one and have confidence and play around with em and get out your comfort zone

Jupiter
October 23rd, 2011, 08:52 PM
How old are you? Girls aren't important right now.. Not for dating purposes at least.

TopGear
October 23rd, 2011, 08:59 PM
So i dont get it. Girls just never seem to be into me. I am a nice guy, i try to be a gentleman and do things like hold the door open for girls and stuff. I am not the fattest dude on the planet, im fairly active, im a big outdoorsmen. and every girl i ask out says no. i dont get it. any ideas as to why this might be? I am unattractive or something?

Hi Green,

Just be yourself, and trust me there is someone that will like you for who you are, Don't change for others so you can get a girl that you might only date for a month. Like others have said, be confident! Keep your head up!

~TopGear

Jupiter
October 23rd, 2011, 09:01 PM
This dude^^ is right..

avater159
October 23rd, 2011, 09:22 PM
The same happens to me to. Ive noticed that if you trying for a girl that you have grown up with(like through school) there not that interested vs a girl from the area but is from a different school or such. Its like getting a fresh start. Trust me it helps.

Bob_
October 23rd, 2011, 11:58 PM
Believe me, dude. I'm in a lot similar situation. I always try to please others, and try helping anyone. Although I joke around often, I'm just trying to help people laugh. I haven't had a serious girlfriend in probably my whole life. So trust me, don't let others make you think you need to be in a relationship, because you don't. I was in a weirdish one where we didn't end up dating, and it just doesn't end well. It's not worth it. School ends up being so much easier when you don't have anyone else taking up important time. It won't seem like it unless you've been in one, but it's like a drug, that you feel you need more and more every time one ends. Just stay confident, and get you're priorties planned out right.

sophiaswan74
October 24th, 2011, 01:02 AM
be confident