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Kayden
October 23rd, 2011, 06:31 AM
Pretty much, I've been really good friends with this one girl for about two and a half years. We've dated once (when we first met) for about a month before she decided it wasnt going to work. Over the last few months I've really started to like her again, like she is honestly perfect for me - shes everything i want. She dosent date alot because she seems to get all the shitty guys, so it's not like im her 'worst' option. But I talked to her best friend (who is also a close friend of mine) and I got her to ask my friend if she had any feeling towards me she said "no, i feel nothing." This has been killing me for the last week or so as I left my last girlfriend a month ago because i still liked my friend.

My question is: How to I deal with this rejection? I feel as if I need to tell her, but i don't want to damage our friendship.

She talks to me everyday and it's really hard to just not talk to her. (She dosent go to my school so its fb/text}

ryantombs
October 25th, 2011, 01:19 AM
Hmmm yur in a sticky situation. My sdvice is... Tell her yurself yu like her... Because someone will ask me who i like and i either say no no one or someone else i like. Cuz she might not want it getting back to you.
But if thts not the case. Just tell her if i cant have yu as my gf i need you as my friend yur my best friend and everything like jus say friendship over relationship. If yu need me to re explain just post and i will

Ambrosia
October 27th, 2011, 01:10 PM
Wait a little while. Don't take it too personally, because she may actually feel for you the same as you feel for her. Girls are like that, just like boys, if we are asked if we like someone it's common for us to say "NO!" Just to avoid the embarassment of having a slight crush.

Slowly but surely work your way into her mind. Talk to her first, start hanging out more. Start hanging out together by yourselves. Going to the mall, movies, what ever takes a liking to you. You honestly don't even have to date her just because you like her. But eventually, you'll feel the time is right, then just ask her.

Ask. Her.