i do not know

[thomfoun]

i do not know if im gay or striate please help i J/O to gay and striate porn

[Ambrosia]

P101:arrow:Sexuality

[humanesquire]

It means that you're (presumably) a teenager that gets horny. That is it.

[Jagador]

Raging hormones, do not be so swift to find the need to declare yourself a label. Time will tell when it is right.

[logan fields]

i feel the same way and i just dont know about anything anymore. i dont want to be gay but i think about boys a lot now and i think that some are very cute so to be honest im afraid i am maybe gay but vt does help me figure stuff out because everyone is so open here and we can talk about anything and that is way cool

[Sosaku]

porn is porn...it gets your blood flowing to your penis, and you feel as though you're attraced to that sex because you got a boner!!! omg, use the head you've used since you were a child...you are who you are, not who your penis wakes up to see...and if you think a guy is cute, woopdidoo...i'm gay and i think some girls are cute, its a matter of opinion...NOT sexuality

[DELETEDACCOUNT1]

i do not know if im gay or striate please help i J/O to gay and striate porn

If you find boys attractive, you are gay.

If you find girls attractive, you are straight.

If you find boys and girls attractive, you are bi.

[smithjohn2]

If you find boys attractive, you are gay.

If you find girls attractive, you are straight.

If you find boys and girls attractive, you are bi.





+1 this sums it up pretty much.

[TrevorTime]

Thom, being gay is not about what porn you watch. It's about having a physical and emotional attraction to other guys.

And Logan, don't sweat your situation. Even though I knew I was gay when I was your age, it's different for every boy. Don't be in a hurry to label yourself, you have all of puberty to figure things out. :)

[nameless12]

nononono, being gay is to get emotionaly and sexualy atracted to men, not just J/O to gay porn, that just means you either curious or just really horny most of the time.

[kuuliluuk]

i feel the same way and i just dont know about anything anymore. i dont want to be gay but i think about boys a lot now and i think that some are very cute so to be honest im afraid i am maybe gay but vt does help me figure stuff out because everyone is so open here and we can talk about anything and that is way cool

I know that feeling. I did question myself the same way. Neither did I want to be a gay. For a quite long time I was thinking I was in the "phase".
At some point I just had to admit that it is no phase and that I am more gay than str8. That hit me hard. Suddenly I was something most people around me hated and yes, I did hate myself too. It was so difficult to accept myself. I wanted to disappear, die. I attempted a suicide. That event kind of cleared my mind. It is a long story to tell.
I don't know if you are in a phase or you truly are a gay or bi or whatever. My message is that you will realise what you are in time.
Be gentle with yourself!!!
Do not label yourself, do not make yourself vulnerable by coming out too early if thats the case. Be open only with those you really trust. Avoid staying alone with your problems if you feel them coming.
What else could I wish!
Just happy selfdiscovery whatever you are!! :)

[thomfoun]

thanks this has been a grate help

[Sterling26]

Thom, being gay is not about what porn you watch. It's about having a physical and emotional attraction to other guys.

And Logan, don't sweat your situation. Even though I knew I was gay when I was your age, it's different for every boy. Don't be in a hurry to label yourself, you have all of puberty to figure things out. :)

yeah like he said don't freak out about it too much, there's no time limit to realizing your sexuality, hell im not even really sure yet

[blackpo]

it means nothing you could be full on gay, you could be bi or even gay... it just shows you are a teenage boy

[Sosaku]

If you find boys attractive, you are gay.

If you find girls attractive, you are straight.

If you find boys and girls attractive, you are bi.

Um, I disagree with this...this is simply saying that if you like something, you are SET to be either gay/bi/straight, and that ISN"T Sexuality at all!

You could (for example) say you are straight, but that you will only date boys, (since you are male) it's simply a label...I'm gay, and i find both males and females to be attractive, even if only a little...maybe i'm like Gay/metrosexual(that is, I like men, but i can judge a pretty girl)

If Sexuality was set into 3 catagories, then the Kinsey scale wouldn't go up to 5 (or 6, not exactly sure, but i think it is 6...) it would go to 3...

Kinsey wasn't saying that there are only 3 sexualities, he knew it was fluid, and that one could fluctuate between maybe, 1.2-4.8(or 5.8 if it goes to 6...)

So therefore, we shouldn't give out the thought that there are only 3!!! That's just wrong. Don't judge yourself on what gives you an erection...if you were naked outside, and the wind started blowing and there was just a CERTAIN temperature, you'd probably get an erection, that doesn't make you "wind-sexual"....

Remember your childhood, and focus on how you are now, have you changed much? I'm sure the things you like have, I'm sure your height has, your weight, your favorite color, your favorite brand of clothes, probably even your favorite food/candy....that is pretty much saying people change, therefore, your sexuality changes. ONLY YOU know who you are, only YOU can determine your sexuality, and no, you aren't just a "horny teenager" that's just saying you're like everyone else, and there is nothing special....you'll grow up, be a business man, behind a desk, same haircut, same colored suit, tie, car, briefcase, wife is the exact same all the time, and that's boring! just like being called a "horny teenager..."

(i know this is pretty much like an essay, but when i'm interested in a subject, i get my point across sorry for the long post...)

[LGCALI]

I know that feeling. I did question myself the same way. Neither did I want to be a gay. For a quite long time I was thinking I was in the "phase".
At some point I just had to admit that it is no phase and that I am more gay than str8. That hit me hard. Suddenly I was something most people around me hated and yes, I did hate myself too. It was so difficult to accept myself. I wanted to disappear, die. I attempted a suicide. That event kind of cleared my mind. It is a long story to tell.
I don't know if you are in a phase or you truly are a gay or bi or whatever. My message is that you will realise what you are in time.
Be gentle with yourself!!!
Do not label yourself, do not make yourself vulnerable by coming out too early if thats the case. Be open only with those you really trust. Avoid staying alone with your problems if you feel them coming.
What else could I wish!
Just happy selfdiscovery whatever you are!! :)
Extremely well said!!!

[jockguy14]

Thom, being gay is not about what porn you watch. It's about having a physical and emotional attraction to other guys.

And Logan, don't sweat your situation. Even though I knew I was gay when I was your age, it's different for every boy. Don't be in a hurry to label yourself, you have all of puberty to figure things out. :)


this.

[cpr97]

i dont want to be gay

if you are gay (not sayin you are) why wouldnt you want to be somethin your body has decided you are? if you try and fool yourself/body out of bein somethin it aint whether its gay/bi or stragiht you will never find true happiness.

Thom just be yourself n enjoy your teen years dont spend them worryin bout if your gay or bi or straight its really not a big deal... cuz in the end whatever you finally realize you are your true friends n people that honestly care bout you will still be there which i think is why so many people worry bout if they are gay bi or straight cuz they are afraid of what others will think... your real friends will never judge you on what you are... and when your body is ready to let you know whether it is boys or girls that will make you happy in life or even both you will know... until then enjoy life man its to short to spend all this time worryin bout somethin you have no control over... n dont be affraid to check things out n explore all your possible avenues along the way just whatever you do be safe doin it :cool:

[BiBoy5674]

your just exprimenting with different porn thats all :)