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ally_____
October 22nd, 2011, 12:39 PM
I'm not compleatly sure where to put this but, oh well!

Anyways, so this is what happened: one night me and some friends were at the homecoming game when one of my friends guy-friends walked up and started talking to us. (Lets just call him S) So after the game we were walking and talking, he was walking slower so we got seperated from our group, i thought he was really funny and sweet so when he asked for my # i gave it to him.

That night he kept texting me and flirting, I don't really know why but i flirted back. Anyways, for the next few days he kept texting me and well...flirting. I found out later that he was a senior and i'm a only 14 so i didn't flirt with him anymore. But he didn't stop, he got a little more pushy so i talked to my sister about him, (shes a junior) she told me that last year one of her friends went out with him and he....tried to rape her.

After that I stopped texting him, after a few days of him constantly texting me and glaring at me in the halls i finally told him that i was sorry and i didn't like him like that. After that he didn't text me for a while, but then the next game came around and he started texting me again, flirting even more.

I'm a little scared of what to do, how do i get rid of him? how do i tell him once and for all that i don't want to be with him? :( please, help me out!

Jupiter
October 22nd, 2011, 12:40 PM
The easiest way is just to stop talking to him. Stay in groups, also. Just in case....

ally_____
October 22nd, 2011, 12:55 PM
lol thanx :) deleting his #..........now!

AllThatYouDreamed
October 22nd, 2011, 12:55 PM
Tell him no. That you don't want this, and that he needs to stop.
Considering his history, I'd also say be prepared to get people involved - friends, parents, school, police if need be.

supadupahitz
October 27th, 2011, 04:39 PM
You've told him youre not interested, now just ignore him. And make sure you dont get in a situation where youre alone with him.

Fiction
October 27th, 2011, 05:23 PM
If he keeps persisting you need to take this further than your sister, maybe tell your parents or a teacher.

If what your sister is saying is true then you may be in danger, and if he isn't leaving you alone you do need to get help. Try and make sure you're not in a position where you're alone with him too.

Relationships and Dating :arrow: Abuse

Nexus
October 31st, 2011, 01:33 PM
"Please stop contacting me." Be firm. Don't say anything that he'll take as a hint that you guys should just be friends or anything. Guys like him will always look for shortcuts and excuses to continue pursuing you.

If all else fails, bring it up with the school. I'm sure if he's as bad as you make him seem, you won't be the first one to complain.

Slytherin_Prince
November 17th, 2011, 03:16 AM
Guys like that aren't supposed to wander the streets anyway, let alone be allowed to send flirtatious texts at you.
Immediately decline and make sure you're as clear as possible.
If necessary, please notify the authorities.
Better safe than sorry, no?

Most sincerely,
Robert.

TheGangstaSheep
November 17th, 2011, 04:49 PM
What an A**hole! Make sure you avoid him at all costs and if you feel threatened, report to an adult straight away.

libra210
November 23rd, 2011, 05:26 PM
Never be by yourself when you see him and ignore his messages

sliidz
November 29th, 2011, 06:58 PM
i agree with fiction you should talk to some one possibly even a councilor who will most likely keep it anonymous.