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Matthew104
October 21st, 2011, 12:31 PM
For about 2 -3 months i have been sexually confused, i am 18 years old, i grew up always liking girls, at 17 i lost my virginity and it was amazing, i then had another girlfriend after which i had sex with and i have never experienced sex better!, i have always liked and loved girls i cant understand this, like i said i have been confused for 3 months and still am now, the thing is i still go out and get with girls becuase that is my natural way of thinking, i met a girl about 3 weeks ago who i had sex with and the confusion went and i felt great! but half way through enjoying time with this girl the thoughts came back and now its making me depressed and i dont know what to do, i need help and anwsers, i dont want to be gay, i have nothing against people like that, but its not for me, but its like my mind is telling me it is,, i started to get these thoughts when i watched this program about gay weddings and then was curious to ask what it would be like, thats when it all started :(

Shenron
October 21st, 2011, 08:17 PM
Three things

1. It is normal to be curious

2. Being curious does not make you gay. To be gay you must have physical and emotional attraction to the same sex

3. We do not need to know how many times you had sex or how good it was.

Jupiter
October 21st, 2011, 10:08 PM
Well.. he basically said everything I was gonna say. And hey, even if you were gay or Bi, or just curious, there is nothing wrong with that.

Jagador
October 22nd, 2011, 07:29 AM
When all seems down, and your face is in the ground, pull it up and look high in the sky. Look, stare and think of its magnificence and its beauty because things are always looking up.

georgiamay
October 22nd, 2011, 08:49 AM
:arrow: Teen Sexuality.