how to handle this ??

[dere]

Hi
Recently some of my 'friends' have come under the impression that I have a small penis and are teasing me about it. Most of it is behind my back and I haven't yet encountered a direct insult. They make comments which they think I won't realise are actually making fun of my dick size. but i've worked it all out and so they don't know that I am aware of what they are doing. Even worse, i think they are spreading this rumour. The other day a larger group of them began sneering and laughing as I walked past, even glancing down at my crotch area.

I don't know how this started as my penis, though not big, should be more or less average at 3'-3.5' soft and 5.5' erect. (for a 15 yr old)

what really makes me angry is that they were some of my closest friends for a number of years and are now treating me like shit... I thought it was just a joke at the start but it has been going on for a while now. I am depressed all the time, especially in the morning and am anxious in all social situations.

I would to know how best handle this situation. Should i confront them or just hope that it passes? thx and sorry for rant

[enzenzz]

Friends can be mean sometimes, and sometimes that's just how boys bond with each other. But that doesn't give them the right to spread rumors about you.

You have a perfectly normal sized penis, so you have nothing to be concerned about. You can try and confront them, even show them, but that would not make it go away unless you go about showing it to everyone, which would be a bad idea.

I would just let it go, ignore them, eventually it would just go away.

[bladerz]

wow who do these guys think they are? even if ur dick was small (and it's not) that's not of their business.

i could teasing ANYONE about this, let alone a close friend...

[Shenron]

Well, for some reason immature kids like to say these things. I have always thought it was because they were trying to make up for their own lack of equipment. My advice to you would be to just ignore it. If it is to the point where it is affecting your daily routine much you should confront them about it.

[itsthat0n3kid]

yea, kids are stupid. dont let it get you you. i bet they are the same size, maybe smaller and just trying to make themselves feel better and/or cooler.

[Short Circuit]

If you show them that it is bothering you, they will do it more and more. Just ignore them, they will soon switch their attention to someone else

[acurasrock]

It will pass, comparing and making fun of other people talking behind their backs is just stupid teenage drama. They'll find something else to make fun of in due time.

[Foamy]

How much were u "friends" with them? Cuz they seem like a bunch of narcissistic bitches. Big fuckin deal. It's ur penis. Not theirs. Little immature rats.

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

It will pass, but it will not ease the pain of the hurt they are causing you. Personally, you now know who your "friends" are. I would start avoiding them and attempt to form other friendships through other activities. Once the "grow-up" they will hopefully understand how hurtful and disrespectful they had been. This is one of the bad things about growing up and running through puberty, kids will be kids and this group sounds a little immature, esp since it has been going on for awhile now. I would try to ignore them the best you can and move on. You really do not need friends like that.

[TrevorTime]

I've never made fun of someone else's dikkie. I mean, what's the point, they come in all shapes and sizes. And bigger isn't always better.

[blackpo]

maybe they are under the impression u r bigger and are jealous then u cant really do anything but hope they grow up unless u want 2 compare with them

[jvballer]

first off did you do anything to make them think yours is small? if not i would confront them about what there laughing about(without mentioning you dick) cause if they were laughing at you about something else then it would be a really awkward moment

[Boxerbriefs96]

Confront...the way it sounds, I dont think its just gonna go away. I would just say,"If you think my dick is small, do you want to see for yourself or something?"

I think that would do the trick.

[xChrisVx]

Unfortunately I am not the most popular person in my school and I also get this a lot. I normally just say that it is bigger than yours and walk away (like i do with most things)

[Drew Tyler]

Hi
Recently some of my 'friends' have come under the impression that I have a small penis and are teasing me about it. Most of it is behind my back and I haven't yet encountered a direct insult. They make comments which they think I won't realise are actually making fun of my dick size. but i've worked it all out and so they don't know that I am aware of what they are doing. Even worse, i think they are spreading this rumour. The other day a larger group of them began sneering and laughing as I walked past, even glancing down at my crotch area.

I don't know how this started as my penis, though not big, should be more or less average at 3'-3.5' soft and 5.5' erect. (for a 15 yr old)

what really makes me angry is that they were some of my closest friends for a number of years and are now treating me like shit... I thought it was just a joke at the start but it has been going on for a while now. I am depressed all the time, especially in the morning and am anxious in all social situations.

I would to know how best handle this situation. Should i confront them or just hope that it passes? thx and sorry for rant

First of all, they aren't friends if they act like this. Second of all, I'd approach them in a crowded area, so EVERYONE will hear you. And tell them straight up...for some reason you think it's funny to talk about my dick! How would you know the size of it unless you peeked at it when I was sleeping! Cause there's no other way you could have seen it!! Are you trying to take the spotlight from you? What are YOU trying hide? Do you like me? Do you want me? Cause that's NEVER going to happen and maybe that's why you're saying I have a small dick!!?!! Well, from now on, keep my dick out out of your mind and especially keep it out of your MOUTH!!!
Be bold and stand your ground...they'll stop it if you embarrass them!! Good luck and don't worry about the size of your penis, it'll grow, and if not, you have an average size penis! Honestly, some like it smaller. It doesn't matter to me what size the guy is...;)

[Trinity_15]

dont worry about it they will drop it sooner or later...
or if you know anything about them spread it or blackmail them with it

[Polishbum]

if you have a lot of confidence like me, then invite them over to your place or when ever you are hanging out, just pull down your pants and be like "is this small to you"?? your so called friends will have more respect for you, or at least i would :)

[maddox]

Next time someone says something like that just say, "That's funny. You didn't think it was small last night when you were choking on it".

That ought to shut them up...

[Blueturtle]

Next time someone says something like that just say, "That's funny. You didn't think it was small last night when you were choking on it".

That ought to shut them up...

LOL, So Funny

[Veon]

Next time someone says something like that just say, "That's funny. You didn't think it was small last night when you were choking on it".

That ought to shut them up...

ROFL!

Yea if they were really your friends then they wouldn't do that stuff. Use comebacks like: "At least I can do something with mine, because it seems you haven't got laid yet." (Although not recommended in a situation whereas you want to insult them)
Don't let them bring you down just because they are insecure about them selves. You can confront them if things don't calm down. Otherwise let it pass, and they will move on to making fun of something else.

[superstarB]

if they like to make fun of the way your body is then they are probably not that much good of friends you use to know, i agree with enzenzz on just ignoring them then it will go away , in another thought if they are making fun of you they are probably just jealous

[Hajara22]

i will agree with jelous and that they arent your friends... find other activities and it will blow over. if its still goin on in a few weeks confront them about it with something toset them out like some of the other posts on here say. lol. it should work but i wouldnt don it unless id dont blow over and make sure you try to keep better friends around you...

[hollisterboi95]

it will pass they might be jealous at something that you have that they don't. maybe they all just thought that you wouldn't mind. try ignoring it though, playing around with it. my friends play around with me sometimes by saying that, all i have to say to them is "yeah i have a small dick and what?"(i use sarcasm) i'm actually 6 inches but they don't know and i don't think they'd want to find out either. just ignore it and it will eventually go away

[audiophile5]

I think you should ignore them, because you are ONE and they are MORE. If u confront them you'll only make it worse..

[Berny94]

Just ignore them!!!!!!!!!!!!! It'll go away sooner than you think!

[sydling98]

Hey mate, Sorry to hear about your sticky situation here, I think you should just let it pass to be honest, I have tried confronting friends before about other questions like this and just got beaten up for it. Not sure if its the same where you live but just let it pass I think :) Good luck! :)

[SamB]

Confront them about it, say exactly how you feel and ask them why they have done it. Try not to get angry, I know it can be hard, but if you are being bullied about it and its making you feel like that then you need to tell them something. People are alive to hate on others its something that i have learnt in life, the hard way, and its something we will all have to deal with but if you talk to them then you will probably get them to apologise if you are totally honest with them. Hope you get this sorted :)

[canadaski]

Recently, I stopped hanging out with two of my "closest" friends. When we first started hanging out it wasn't so bad but it got worse and worse. They would gang up together and make fun of me for stupid reasons. Their immaturity was ridiculous. Sometimes, I'd get frustrated and tell them to stop or get the hell out. Then they made fun of my frustration with them. I realized that they are nothing but 6 year olds, so we eventually stopped hanging out.