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Israel1
October 21st, 2011, 01:31 AM
Hi, I am having problems identfying myself, I consider myself strait and this is because of a long time of self reflection but last night I had a dream about experimenting with a freind and this worryies me :/ also is it gay if you saw a guy naked and got a bonner? I didn't like it but it still happened, am I strait?

DarkHorses
October 21st, 2011, 11:22 AM
Hey,

I don't believe anyone can tell you if you're straight or not, but I can tell you that it doesn't sound like your gay, at least not based on the information you have given. Being gay means that you have both a sexual desire for the same sex, and the desire to be in a relationship with the same sex. Just because you get turned on by two gay people doesn't mean you are gay, and neither does having dreams about experimenting. That's normal, and doesn't reveal anything about your sexual orientation in my opinion.

Syvelocin
October 21st, 2011, 11:51 AM
You are a human.

Don't worry about it. You are young, you are growing, experiencing new things, hormones raging. Worry about your sexuality when you get to that point. For now, date who you feel like dating. Don't make the mistake of being too hung up over your sexuality.

Israel1
October 21st, 2011, 01:59 PM
You see I really like girls,, and I mean alot! infact I have a major crush on a girl right now but this made me worry, but I am good know :). Oh and I never got turned on by gay people, I just saw a guy naked and that happed.

Carlyle
October 21st, 2011, 02:12 PM
Part of puberty is usually being curious. It doesn't mean your gay, you might just want to experiment and find out.

Israel1
October 21st, 2011, 02:26 PM
Yeah, thanks. After Reading on here I realise I am strait but curiosity is just another part of puberty.

thecanjump
October 21st, 2011, 02:42 PM
You are a human.

Don't worry about it. You are young, you are growing, experiencing new things, hormones raging. Worry about your sexuality when you get to that point. For now, date who you feel like dating. Don't make the mistake of being too hung up over your sexuality.

That's what I was thinking. You don't have to label yourself, just do what you feel is right.

Blind
October 21st, 2011, 04:26 PM
It's normal for young a guy to get a hard on when they see another guy naked but that doesnt make you gay. Unless you felt attraction to him when you saw him that way then you might be. If you like girls and feel no attraction to other guys then you are most likely straight dont worry about it man. For now just be yourself and dont worry about if you like girls or guys more.