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BOSSPENGUIN
October 19th, 2011, 09:24 PM
so i havent had a girlfriend in jr high yet didnt have one last year either :P because we cant actually date im in 8th grade btw. but people are "boyfriend and girlfriend" and dont even date which is odd ive had many people come up 2 me and ask me why dont i have a girlfriend and when i say no all the girls say"but ur freakin hot!!" so how could you even "Ask out" a girl and make them your girlfriend if you cant date this is really confusing :P

Jupiter
October 19th, 2011, 09:26 PM
at my school people date. and actually hang out, and ya know, go on dates :P

Shenron
October 19th, 2011, 09:39 PM
Well, you can call yourself whatever you want, be that boyfriends and girlfriend or anything else. Just because you say it does not make it so. I am totally against dating in junior high and high school because people are inconsiderate assholes. People do not care if they hurt you, and they will hurt you, they don't think twice about it. Take some advice from someone who has dealt with it and learned their lesson. Focus on school till you get out of college, then focus on your career for at least 5 years. The rest of your life will be made so much easier.

White
October 20th, 2011, 12:16 AM
'Dating' is when you guys and girls are BF-GF.

TheMatrix
October 20th, 2011, 01:17 AM
I don't have anyone, but I don't really try either.
However, I do have a friend who seemed to have a pretty stable relationship in 8th grade. As far as I know, they are still BF-GF.

AmusedDJ
October 22nd, 2011, 02:09 AM
just wait till hs, then people actually go out. but jr high is messed up like that.

Jagador
October 22nd, 2011, 02:18 AM
Highschool is where everything counts. Its where you make your mark and make it shine. But, i would suggest keeping dating down lower on your list of priorities, and focus on schooling and college. You have plenty of opportunities to date, don't be so hasty. If you really are curious, ask someone you know with past experience that can clue you in.

ImCoolBeans
October 22nd, 2011, 01:59 PM
Well I don't see why you can't 'date'. I dated girls in 7th/8th grade - going to movies, dinner, just hanging out etc.. But yeah, as said above highschool is when it gets a bit more serious. Whenever you feel its right :P