Just a second opinion

[Iron Man]

On Sunday, me and my girlfriend broke up. What sucks the most is that it only lasted three weeks and we only saw each other 3 times. She said that she wasn't romantically attracted to me, which sorta sucked. Now, we don't really say much to each other when we do talk. How can I make things different?

[abdheuuuchjc]

Try to become friends with her friends and make general small talk with her and evenly it will get less awkward

[Iron Man]

She said after we broke up that she just wants to be friends for a while. During the relationship she said that it didn't seem like we were dating.

[ImCoolBeans]

Try to become friends with her friends and make general small talk with her and evenly it will get less awkward

This is a good start. Try to make small talk, converse regularly and try to make things interesting. Nothing is worse than a conversation about absolutely nothing; its boring for everyone.

And if you want to continue dating, this may make her realize that she does too - if she's seeing that you can have strong conversation. Try to hangout with her also, if she said it seemed like you weren't dating its because you only went out three times in three weeks. Girls don't like it when they don't speak to/see their boyfriends regularly.

[BayArea]

That was how my first relationship was, And I didnt realize it until much later. Even if you are shy, reach out, maybe ask her to go to the movies or something. Dont try to pull anything, just make her feel that you like her.