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Longfellow
October 18th, 2011, 06:12 PM
So I'm not extremely good at these things, but I have this girl(we'll call her Hannah) I like and I've analyzed our compatibility several times. I've also talked with my best friend, who is good looking, charming, and gets all the ladies, and he also says that we seems quite compatible. She's not the sexiest woman in the world, but we have history, enjoy a lot of the same things, and are involved in similar activities at school. We talk to each other in class and also text. She and her friend(we'll call her Sasha) used to always call me when they had sleep overs.

There are so many things that makes it seem like Hannah likes me, a lot. But then there's the one "beyond a reasonable doubt" factor. My friend(we'll call him Cody) likes her although he claims that he's "Moved on." I also kind of think that she likes him. Due to the fact that Cody and I are almost glue at the hip, because we have all of our classes together and are friends, it seems as if she may not actually approach me to talk to me, but just to talk to him.

I have also confronted Hannah about Cody's interest in her and she told me that he told her that he likes her. Considering nothing has come of it, I have to only hope that she didn't go out with him because she was saving herself for me.

One last note I think I need to add. I'm not one of those guys who's all like "I has GF!" and then leaves her sitting at home and never interacts with her other than texting. To prove the point that I'm a gentleman is the reaason I brought up Sasha. Sasha and I were near and dear to dating over the summer and I even took her out on a couple of dates and we weren't even dating!

If anyone has any advice, tips, suggestions or comments, I would greatly appreciate it!

secretly_secret
October 18th, 2011, 08:59 PM
Hey my name is Hannah! (Sorry, I just had to say that.) ;)

Shenron
October 18th, 2011, 10:21 PM
These things do happen. I would talk to your friend about his feelings for her. If you are that close then you do not want to step on his toes by going out with her if he intends to make a move. See what he says and if he is okay with it then talk to her about it. That is really the only advice I can give with the information you have given me.

If you need any more advice please let me know.