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dman18
October 18th, 2011, 05:30 PM
So i have a best friend that i love so much and would do anything for, no matter what, but recently i feel like our relationship is just bad right now. It mainly started when he started dating this girl and all his attention went to her, instead of me like it has been for 6 years. And like when we see each other we dont have much to say, when we text we only send like 3 a day, rather than the 70 or 80 we used to send daily, and i hear things from other people that hes confided in and they tell me things that hes never even told me! Like i keep thinking does he not trust me? We are best friends and now i feel like he doesnt even care about me. Our friendship is dead, were like a boring married couple. And its weird because i kow everything about him, and he knows everything about me and i thought thats what made us close!! But i can feel him slipping out of the friendship slowly, and im so sad i have no idea what to do. We dont even fight or anything, were just really close friends. I want to talk to him about it, but i just cant, i feel it will hurt his feelings or something. What should i do?:(


Oh and i know i mispelled friendship but it wont let me change it, i swear im not dumb lol :p

Perseus
October 18th, 2011, 05:38 PM
Really, the only thing there is to do is to talk to him about it. Otherwise, it's likely that he'll just keep floating away and then you guys won't even be close friends anymore.

StoppingTime
October 18th, 2011, 05:50 PM
Exactly. If you don't ask him what happened, you guys won't be friends. It's unlikely he's going to go out of his way to tell you about it, so you have to ask. But don't bug him about it.

Shenron
October 18th, 2011, 08:01 PM
Yep, you have to say something to save the friendship. Tell him how you feel, ask him if you offended him. Say something to start the conversation about your friendship.