justchill
October 18th, 2011, 01:01 AM
I have recently been noticing a lot of guys my age (13) in my school talking about how hard it is to talk to girls. Or the girl you like.
This isn't as hard as it sounds. The hardest part is probably getting over the fear or just being ignored or just rejected in some way.
1) Think about it. Do you like her? Enough to maybe even want to be boyfriend and girlfriend?
2) Confidence is key. But don't be a cocky A-hole some girls like it some girls don't.
3) If you are too shy to talk to her just yet. Use facebook or some sort of instant messaging service. You can start of the conversation with many things
A. Whats for homework?
B. Hi are you that girl?......
C. If you have the same classes such as writing. Ask her what are you writing about for your story.
4) Talk to her for a long time maybe even a hour.
5) Eventually, make sure she is comfortable to talk about deeper about things like..
A. What do you like in a guy?
B. have you ever liked a guy?
C. Who is your crush/most recent crush?
D. What do you think of me? Make sure though she has the option to not answer.
6) Eventually she will say something like hey I have to get off the computer or my older bro/sis need to use the computer.
7) Give her your number if you want to talk still and you feel the conversation is still strong.
The hardest part might be getting confidence up about talking to her in person. Just don't worry about a thing. If she rejects you and thinks she is too good for you. She probably does not deserve you.
Remember be nice, not sexual, try to avoid words like; P***y, C**k, B**bs, A*s. Say goodnight to her. Bombard her with questions but don't get too nosy. I am only 13 so I do not know how this works for older kids.
Girls are complicated you are not alone. I know this works at least it did for me. I had a girlfriend for over a year and recently broke up with her. But I am going to be me for a while. Also girls are great listeners at times tell them your problems some love to be a therapist.
This isn't as hard as it sounds. The hardest part is probably getting over the fear or just being ignored or just rejected in some way.
1) Think about it. Do you like her? Enough to maybe even want to be boyfriend and girlfriend?
2) Confidence is key. But don't be a cocky A-hole some girls like it some girls don't.
3) If you are too shy to talk to her just yet. Use facebook or some sort of instant messaging service. You can start of the conversation with many things
A. Whats for homework?
B. Hi are you that girl?......
C. If you have the same classes such as writing. Ask her what are you writing about for your story.
4) Talk to her for a long time maybe even a hour.
5) Eventually, make sure she is comfortable to talk about deeper about things like..
A. What do you like in a guy?
B. have you ever liked a guy?
C. Who is your crush/most recent crush?
D. What do you think of me? Make sure though she has the option to not answer.
6) Eventually she will say something like hey I have to get off the computer or my older bro/sis need to use the computer.
7) Give her your number if you want to talk still and you feel the conversation is still strong.
The hardest part might be getting confidence up about talking to her in person. Just don't worry about a thing. If she rejects you and thinks she is too good for you. She probably does not deserve you.
Remember be nice, not sexual, try to avoid words like; P***y, C**k, B**bs, A*s. Say goodnight to her. Bombard her with questions but don't get too nosy. I am only 13 so I do not know how this works for older kids.
Girls are complicated you are not alone. I know this works at least it did for me. I had a girlfriend for over a year and recently broke up with her. But I am going to be me for a while. Also girls are great listeners at times tell them your problems some love to be a therapist.