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Trying-but-failing
October 17th, 2011, 08:33 PM
So like with almost every girly story, there was a guy. He was a jock and everybody knows that jocks dont go out with band geeks well usualy not. But this guy he had broke up with his gf and even though he said we were like brother and sister he would always touch my arm in that loving way he gave me hugs and put his arms around me. He did all the things that simply ment i was his we wernt going out and i kept telling people to stop saying that we should because it just would never happen today i found out he got a new gf and im totaly crushed not that i would let anyone see that. Everythings been getting tense lattly and i opend up, i think i actualy started to trust him which is weard because i don't trust anyone for this exact reason. I let him get to know me and things about me and he just abandond me like everyone else. I just want to cut so bad now, it was always there for me and i think its been 2 or 3 weeks since i last did but i just hurt so much now and i think i need it again because hes not here. I'v been waiting for someone like him for 2 years. Someone who i could relate to and be honist with, it's just not working for me. Nothing is. I tried, at least i can say that i tried to conect with people and it got spat back in my face. I just want to shut down right now. I want it all to go away and i have to cut to do that. How stupid i am for trusting someone. It's my number one rule Dont trust anyone and i broke it what else was i expecting?

Jupiter
October 17th, 2011, 08:38 PM
:( if you need to talk to me, add me, and we can chat.

ryantombs
October 17th, 2011, 10:07 PM
thats almost exactly like me execpt i got the girl ive been waiting for for 4 yrs and bunch of promises and everything seemed so real and we actually were gonna get married and fufill our dreams together... then she left me... sent me into a downward sprial why cuz i trusted her. we are almost in the same boat and what my GP told me was that she loved me so much she saved me from a harder heart break later on... which as much as i dont wanna believe it could be true and i think the same stands for you... hun if its meant to be its meant to be who knows maybe you gotta wait another yr and yu guys could be closer later and be an even better couple just like me nd my gf i gotta either hope for that or i find someone WHO WILL TREAT ME RIGHT (which i think i should do) yu should do that
-but dont cut as you know its only a temporary fix
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