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Hank Hill
October 17th, 2011, 07:22 PM
So here's the story: (For those who'll read it :) )

This girl I've liked (I don't know if she returns the feeling or not :rolleyes: ) was dating this punk from a town that's quite aways away. I don't know if he was a punk or not, but he seemed like one to me :P . Anyway, I knew that relationship wouldn't last, because she is better than him. Just today they finally broke up, and with the Homecoming dance this weekend, I'm considering asking her but afraid she'll say no. The reason I'm freakin out is because she JUST broke up with her boyfriend, and I don't know if she'll want to go to the dance, if she wants someone to ask, and I don't wanna be the guy who asks her, gets rejected, and then it's awkward to be around her for the rest of the trimester. (We have a few classes together.) :D

So my question is: "What do you think I should do?"

Do you think it would seem that I was jumping the gun on her just leaving her boyfriend, and I'd come of rude, or should I go for it and risk not being able to talk to her normally for the rest of the year without asking myself "why?"

You decide for me, I'm lazy, thanks. ;)

Maybe I'm crazy, :D

~Tyler

Jupiter
October 17th, 2011, 07:25 PM
if you never try, you'll never succeed.

Hank Hill
October 17th, 2011, 09:24 PM
if you never try, you'll never succeed.

I know I'm just a little worried she might think I'm rushing to get together with her right after she got out of a relationship, and she'll end up not wanting to talk to me at all. We don't talk much, only some small talk

In short, I'm a wimp. :D

Jupiter
October 17th, 2011, 09:25 PM
I know I'm just a little worried she might think I'm rushing to get together with her right after she got out of a relationship, and she'll end up not wanting to talk to me at all. We don't talk much, only some small talk

In short, I'm a wimp. :D

Just grow the relationship little by little.

Bob_
October 17th, 2011, 09:54 PM
But there's less than a week, so I'm gonna have to say be there for her through the breakup, and ask if she wants to goto get her mind off him, and to help her be happy again.

Hollywood
October 17th, 2011, 11:50 PM
I'd say go for it. If you don't try, and someone else does, you'll be kicking yourself for ages. Just ask her casually if she'd like to go to the dance, without any pressure, and say you'd understand if she says no. Also make sure to be there for her and help get her through the breakup. If she says yes, mission accomplished! If not, don't act too disappointed. Just say 'Okay, that's fine, I was just wondering' and move on to another discussion.

Hope this helps you out!