Having the girl I like leave her boyfriend?

[grock]

So a long story short, me and this girl like each other. Alot. My ex has been telling her sh** about me and why she shouldn't date me. What a bi***. The girl I like has been in an on and off relationship with another guy. The guy has cheated on her once. When we started talking they were off, but last weekend it started up again, but I barely found out, more than a week later. The girl I like wants to be done with him, she wants to be with me the problem is, this guy is sort of my friend and our moms know each other. Also, he seems SO in love with her. On Facebook he is always saying I love you ___ ____, or always talking about her to other people. If the girl I like left him for me, I think I would feel really really bad. Can anyone give me any advice on this?

[shadowhunter320]

If he has a problem with it he iprobably sn't a good friend... he cheated on her,he got himself into that mess. But its your life so do what you feel is right:)

[anonymous53]

Heads up.If he's cheating on her, he doesn't love her. Then again, you're pulling an equally dick move :) So I'd honestly wait till she dumps him before you go for it.

[Jupiter]

Is he a close friend? I mean.. it's not like she will never ever date again..

[Hollywood]

He cheated on her. And since it appears to be on and off, I seriously doubt he's going to pitch a holy fit if you date her. And if he does, he only has himself to blame for cheating on her in the first place.

Unless you guys are close friends. I wouldn't recommend going out with a close friend's ex.

[ryantombs]

bros over hoes... sorry but jus like chicks over dicks... my best advice make sure she leaves because she wants to not your decision and honestly wait like a month or something before going PDA or making it offical (my ex and i attempted it) cuz actually my ex left me went to my good friend then came back to me so... yea id say let her make the decision dont force her and wen and if they break up wait like a month or so

[Dack]

Don't listen to the guy above me, he obviously didn't read this right

Go for it. He has cheated on her, so he definitely doesn't love her like he says he does. I'd go for and if he hates you for it, too fucking bad for him, he should've treated her right.

[abdheuuuchjc]

Go for her but explain to that guy that u love her and no hard feelings

[Eagle63]

bros b4 hoes. When theyre in an off stage in their relationship, talk to ur friend about it.

[BayArea]

Anyone who cheats is not in love. Really, I doubt most other teens who think they are in love. Thats not the point though. Just because someone posts things on facebook dosent make them legit, I have had girls that were flirting with me, post the most flattering things about their boyfriends for the world to see, then go back to texting me about sex, it goes both ways. If she really doesnt want him, she needs to make that decision, not you.

[supadupahitz]

Personally I would tell her that if she breaks up with him, you would date her, but not right away. Leave some time in there so shes not jumping from him to you.