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Chillswil
October 16th, 2011, 10:32 PM
So one weekend after noon me and my friend went to the fair and we basically just talked all day then he slept over that night. We watched the matrix (an awesome movie) and [content deleted] And I haven't seen him lately but I think about what were going to do next time he comes over. I'm wondering if this makes me bi because I also like girls. Sorry for the long post
Shenron
October 17th, 2011, 12:20 PM
No, it doesn't make you bisexual. Bisexuality is having both a sexual and emotional attraction to members of both genders. This makes you curious, which is normal for guys in puberty.
Lights
October 17th, 2011, 12:59 PM
Only you will know in time whether you are bisexual or not. What you have to remember though is that being bisexual means having physical and mental attraction to both genders. It could very well be that you've just enjoyed experimenting with this boy, and you won't really be interested in having these kind of interactions with boys again.
If you do continue to do this kind of thing on a regular basis though, you may want to consider you sexuality. However, do not decide you're bisexual purely because you enjoy the physical activities that go on between two guys. You generally need to have actual physical attraction to boys, as well as mental where you really want to be with them (like in a relationship or something). People often come on these forums questioning their sexuality - heck I did at one time, but in the end, only you will be able to tell your sexuality. It's just something you'll know. Sometimes I get asked how I know I'm gay and like guys? I respond: how do you know you're straight and like guys/girls? You just do. You just have to gain the mental maturity to understand, and hopefully accept, yourself.
Just be patient, and don't rush to label yourself. One day you'll just feel confident enough to say what you are, whether that be straight, bi, or gay. :)
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