Experimentation/BJ

[minimoya]

I am now bi and there's a friend that I'm really close to. He's straight and I would like to pull an experiment or just BJ, no further detail. Now, there's conversation startups, what is a BJ startup? I already told him I'm bi and he's okay with it; I'm wondering two things: how do I go for it (because in my high school, I'm sure experimentation doesn't ever happen)? and will this ruin the friendship? We've been friends long enough that I don't think that'll happen. And my last question is: what are the chance of him having an STD? I'm paranoid and I don't want him cumming in my mouth if he has any STD. Neither of us are old enough to buy condoms and I'm not asking my brother if he has any or to go get some; he judges me all the time. My family's too awkward to talk to.

[LuckyLuke]

Alrighty,

1- You're bi, he knows that, and he's STRAIGHT. The main purpose of EXPERIMENTING is to experiment and if he knows he's straight and you know that you like guys, that's just sexual fun and he probably won't be up for that.
2- This can certainly ruin a friendship, esp. if you're pursuing something that he's not at all comfortable with (as I suspect he may be). You'd be doing sexual things and people sometimes find it hard to view one another the same way afterward.
3- The chance of him having an STD depend on how sexually active he's been. If he's notorious for having sex with random girls, there's a higher chance but not guaranteed way of knowing. You can, of course, "check everything out" looking for red bumps around his genitals but SOMETIMES you JUST CAN'T TELL.
4- If you're giving a blowjob, "swallowing" won't increase your chances by much, if any. UNLESS there's an open wound in your mouth (cut, sore, etc) where the germs can enter the bloodstream. If there isn't, you're not taking much extra risk BUT these cuts can be so minuscule that it's almost impossible to tell. Be warned.
5- There's likely no age restrictions to buy condoms where you are. I know the UK and the United States do NOT have age restrictions.

[TopGear]

Alrighty,

1- You're bi, he knows that, and he's STRAIGHT. The main purpose of EXPERIMENTING is to experiment and if he knows he's straight and you know that you like guys, that's just sexual fun and he probably won't be up for that.
2- This can certainly ruin a friendship, esp. if you're pursuing something that he's not at all comfortable with (as I suspect he may be). You'd be doing sexual things and people sometimes find it hard to view one another the same way afterward.
3- The chance of him having an STD depend on how sexually active he's been. If he's notorious for having sex with random girls, there's a higher chance but not guaranteed way of knowing. You can, of course, "check everything out" looking for red bumps around his genitals but SOMETIMES you JUST CAN'T TELL.
4- If you're giving a blowjob, "swallowing" won't increase your chances by much, if any. UNLESS there's an open wound in your mouth (cut, sore, etc) where the germs can enter the bloodstream. If there isn't, you're not taking much extra risk BUT these cuts can be so minuscule that it's almost impossible to tell. Be warned.
5- There's likely no age restrictions to buy condoms where you are. I know the UK and the United States do NOT have age restrictions.

Couldn't have put it any better!

[ashdaniel]

never try and no one know i am bi in real life