What to do

[Trying-but-failing]

I used to cut my self but my lifes not about that anymore nobody knew so i could just move on with my life right, wrong. So im depressed like sereosly depresed and ya durring school i can somtimes get over it and be "happy" but it's just getting harder ya know. No body ever noticed when i cut myself which was a good thing but know im depresed and im trying so hard to keep moving but now i want someone to nottice that im hurt and that i don't know what to do. I just want someone to nottice that im not allright, i just want someone to care and see that i need help, why dosn't anybody ever see the pain im in. Lifes not easy, my famaly is so screwed up and i always knew being the middle child i wouldn't get much attention but just this once can't anyone nottice that everything is not all right.

[Magenta]

The best way to get someone to notice is to tell them.

As I mentioned on one of your other threads, speak to your parents and maybe ask to see a therapist. It could really benefit you just to have someone to talk to and support you when you feel you need someone to notice.

Often it's easier to wish someone would just notice and save you the trouble but people tend not to see what they're not looking for. So if you need help, tell someone. It's hard and sometimes you may have to push away your pride or possibly embarrassment but whatever the case, it will help. The first step to getting better is admitting something is wrong and you've done that. Now it's time to ask for help.

This isn't the end. You don't need to self-harm. You can get through this without more pain. Stopping self-harm takes work and I'm sure you know that but it's easier if you have some sort of support system. Talking to your parents and a professional is a great start for a steady support system.

I'm here if you ever need to talk. :)

[ryantombs]

Hey i know i told my bestfriend and that really calmed me down my parents found out and they sent down a downward spiral im not ready to tall to them or anyone i am calm wit my friend and stuff oddly i cut cuz of stuff with her i say yu try and tell a friend thats my advice it helped/ is helping me