A few questions...

[insanity]

Well, Im in my first like serious relationship (im 15 btw) and me and my bf have been going out for just over two weeks.

Im kinda getting bothered by some things.

I dunno if I have been reading to much crappy romatic stuff or something, but a real relationship doesnt seem great at all, he just cares about getting in my pants, this kind of bothers me... But idk if I just expect to much..

another thing that kind of worry's me is that its going WAY to fast. I cant deny that I dont like it, sure it feels good. But it makes me feel easy. I only just turned 15 and Ive already attempted to give him a hj and a bj and he has fingered me and stuff... but it all feels way to fast and im not that comfortable with it but idk how to tell him that..

I also dont like sucking his dick, its gross as and makes me feel like puking. But I feel I have to.

I just feel really stuck.

[StoppingTime]

Well, Im in my first like serious relationship (im 15 btw) and me and my bf have been going out for just over two weeks.

Im kinda getting bothered by some things.

I dunno if I have been reading to much crappy romatic stuff or something, but a real relationship doesnt seem great at all, he just cares about getting in my pants, this kind of bothers me... But idk if I just expect to much..

Unfortunately, this is how some guys are. You shouldn't expect that it is right. Romance never works out like it does on TV. If you feel that he is doing something wrong, talk to him about how you feel


another thing that kind of worry's me is that its going WAY to fast. I cant deny that I dont like it, sure it feels good. But it makes me feel easy. I only just turned 15 and Ive already attempted to give him a hj and a bj and he has fingered me and stuff... but it all feels way to fast and im not that comfortable with it but idk how to tell him that..

Again, if things aren't going how you want, you have to tell him. He probably knows he's going too fast, but he definitely won't do anything if you don't bring it up. Do what you are comfortable with, and tell him what you do and don't want to do. Nobody can force you to do anything

I also dont like sucking his dick, its gross as and makes me feel like puking. But I feel I have to.

Same thing here. If you don't like it, tell him. This is the only way he will even consider not doing it with you. If he still doesn't listen, then I don't think he's the right guy for you.


Good Luck!

[anonymous53]

Sadly, most guys just want to get into your pants. You're NOT expecting too much.

When it comes to moving too fast, *TELL HIM* You're young. You don't need to be doing all those sexual things right away. Especially since it doesn't seem like a real relationship. If he's a good guy, he'll listen.

[insanity]

Im to scared to tell him, I have tried before but I never am strong enough to actually make it work. I dont really wont to lose him though... >.<

I know im just being silly and need to talk to him bt I can pull myself together and do it..

[anonymous53]

Just ask him if he thinks you two are moving a little too fast in the sexual department :p

[insanity]

I tried, and we both agree, but then next time we are alone he 'forgets' and I cant remind him incase he gets angry...

[LuckyLuke]

... I cant remind him incase he gets angry...


Excuse me? In case he gets angry? It's YOUR body and YOUR life. If you don't want to do something than don't you dare do it. No means no and he'll either respect that our you'll kick him out the door. YOU survived 15 years without him and you can survive the rest of your life without him if he's going to hurt you like this.

Talk to him and don't take no for an answer.

[StoppingTime]

I tried, and we both agree, but then next time we are alone he 'forgets' and I cant remind him incase he gets angry...

What does he do? If you don't like how he acts, then you have to tell him to stop. Whether he will listen or not depends, but this can't happen. Don't let yourself be taken advantage of. I don't want to get too far into your life, but I still am not sure if you guys are really meant for each other if this is how you are treated.

[insanity]

Im going to break up with him, he wont listen to me >.<

[Dark_Desires]

No offence but he sounds like a jerk.a relationship should be about love first not sexual stuff.Hope all goes well

[insanity]

true, but love now a days? doesn't really mean anything.

[LuckyLuke]

Yes it does.

[StoppingTime]

It depends on what people are really calling "love".

[anonymous53]

Im going to break up with him, he wont listen to me >.<
Good for you girl! You go :)

true, but love now a days? doesn't really mean anything.


Love doesn't mean anything? I only want love. Love means a lot more than you think

[Bob_]

true, but love now a days? doesn't really mean anything.

Love isn't just a word; it's the feeling of true happiness. If you say it means nothing, then it will do just that. I have told it to 1 person this year, and now I can't even say it to that person. If you use love for everything, you'll overuse it, and making it sound meaningless. But if you use it in rare situations, you find that it means much, much more.

As for him... He's lucky you're even TALKING to him. He obviously has no care for you as a person, and more than likely doesn't care about you at all. So get him out of your life, he's no good.