HELP!!! my friend and i are in a huge fight

[marine_sniperman35]

sorry. It's just one of my good friends is beginning to treat me like shit. ive been a little more deffensive than i usually would. She won't tell me anything and then she complains that i'm not listening to her problems so i can help her. This girl is practically my sister. I don;t get her. She gets pissed @ me for nothing. Her boyfriend isn't dropping out of highschool and she posted a bulletin saying how happy she was. I replied sayin "im glad for both of you." etc. All the cheesy stuff and she replies sayin "um don't talk to me." Idk what is going on with her. but wat she is basically doing is making a whole bunch of new friends and pushing me out of the picture. Whenever i try to be a part of the picture and talk to her and have a civilized conversation with her she bitches at me for nothing. Then she goes off on how "she doesn;t care about my non existant love life" but she comes tome with her relationship issues and expects me to care. I'm just considering right now leaving a friend i have had since the 4th grade because the only thing she is doing is blowing me off and bitching at me and being a hypocrit. It's depressing me. Please help...

[Maverick]

Ugh I'm sorry your friend is being difficult. If you already tried to make the effort to be civil and she's pushing you away there's not much you can really do. :( If she was a good friend she wouldn't treat you that way. Just distance yourself from her and hang out with other people. That's what I would do.

[gamerdude12]

Use the "jealousy method" or how I like to call it, "the right back at cha treatment." This is basically doing the same thing to her she is doing to you, meaning when she starts to feel the same way, you can explain to her, "see, this is how it feels." If she still acts the same way or it doesnt work, then you're better off just tossing your friendship in the trash!

THIS METHOD HAS A CAUTION: this method however many times tested, may spark a serious conflict that could just worsen or even escelate the problem. PLEASE BE SURE TO KEEP SERIOUS CATION WHEN USING THIS METHOD!

[Maverick]

Two wrongs don't make a right. It's best to be the better person and take my advice. You'll only make things worst by taking gamerdude12's advice.

[DestroyTheFuture]

maybe shes PMSing...


seriously dude. thats the first thing i ask my friends that are girls when they are unusually pissed at me.

[invisiblegirl]

maybe she is PMSing i'm the same way when i am. i push veryone away and just wanna b alone. or maybe somthings wrong , maybe she heard something going around scool that u said or maybe even that somone maid up. i think u should just try 2 sit down w/ her alone and talk about it just say " well ya know here latly i feel like ur pissed at me , have i done somthing?"ect.

[0=]

Just chill, things will probably cool off after a while if you've known her that long.

[gamerdude12]

Two wrongs don't make a right. It's best to be the better person and take my advice. You'll only make things worst by taking gamerdude12's advice.

When you put 2 bad and good things, they may not het better...

its just like in math.... negative times a negative equals a positive!

[invisiblegirl]

but a negitive plus a negitive = a negitive