3 options.

[Jupiter]

Not to objectify women, but right now, I feel like I can't continue with the way I am going and focusing on 3 girls.

I am 14, and I love smart people.

Girl number 1. She lives in a neighboring city, I see her at this leadership thing, and we text all the time. She likes me, but she has a boyfriend. She just turned 14. I've known her for just about a month.

Girl number 2. She lives in my city, goes to my school. She is so sweet, short, and funny. She doesn't believe in God, nor anything at the moment. She is searching for religions. I love her, I really do. We just both have trust issues. She doesn't like me. She's also a grade younger than me. 12 years old.

Girl number 3. She lives in my city, goes to my school, she's so smart. She's pretty, and she is just..... :) I've known her since 4th grade. We have been friends since about..... a year or so ago. Maybe a little before. I am sure she loves me, but she doesn't like me back. She also doesn't like me, but that can change. She is also my very best friend, and if we were to go out, I would do anything for her, and the same way around. I've also liked her since 4th grade. The moment I saw her. She is 14 years old.

So what do you guys think. Please respond.

[anonymous53]

I'd think the first choice is a really bad one.
Second, pursue her.

Third. Best friends aren't worth it.

[Jupiter]

But, I think I love the last one the most. Second, she doesn't like me, does your answer stand?

[Sage]

Option 4: Stop worrying about this stuff and enjoy being young. I think they're all terrible options that'll cause you more grief than they're worth, kiddo.

[Jupiter]

Option 4: Stop worrying about this stuff and enjoy being young. I think they're all terrible options that'll cause you more grief than they're worth, kiddo.

Okay, I'll try. It just doesn't seem that easy..

[Sage]

Okay, I'll try. It just doesn't seem that easy..

Not pursuing things is always easier than pursuing them. Unless you're a drug addict.

[Jupiter]

Not pursuing things is always easier than pursuing them. Unless you're a drug addict.

Hmm.. those are some real words of wisdom man... ^_^

[secretly_secret]

I'd say number three.

Not like you'd take your sister's advice right now, anyway...

[Shenron]

I agree with Sage, it really is not worth worrying about at this stage of your life. There are better things to do and more important things to worry about. Almost 100% of relationships started in high school or before wind up crashing and burning. If you do pursue this you will cause yourself more grief and stress than you would if you just let it go. It may not be easy to let it go, but it needs to be done.

[Jupiter]

Alright. Thanks guys :) I'll just focus more on school.

[Snowfall]

Go for the best friend...if she says yes you'll have a very stable relationship as both of you are best friends

[Kujiro]

I would agree with Sage, that none of the above 3 options seems viable.
The first is likely a passing cloud, she would move on in life with her boyfriend and people she come across.
Considering you've only known her for a month, its likely more of an infatuation.

The 2nd is totally pointless, shes only 12, chances that her emotions are going to be swinging around as she meets more and more people during her growing years.
It may work out, but i doubt it would be a lasting one.

The 3rd you got me lost, what do you mean by she loves you , but not like you back?
She seem to fit the discription of your childhood sweetheart thing.
But there are times, as people grow, objectives and goals changes.
It would seem she would see you like a brother than a partner.
Guess that leaves that as that.

You made a right choice to focus more on school, and perhaps along the way you may meet someone else.

Ultimately the choice is yours, we are just sharing based on a 3rd person's perspective, and by no means understand what you could have been through with each of them.
Follow your heart, and do not be afraid to lose.

Good luck
*smile*