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Lawrence18
October 14th, 2011, 04:23 PM
Im sorry if im being boring but ijust needed to say this to smoebody. My life is shit. I have no fiends, they all say they are but they never ansewr to my messages, call me or anything and talk behind my back and i always helped everybody i could and now im just sick of it all. And no girl wants me even though all girl say youre not ugly, noooooooo. Everybody is just lying to me, and they all told me that they are lying when they were drunk. I have no one and i just dont want anything any more than one thing: why should i go on if all my life has been like this? Im just so depressed, not for a day or so but for years ive been depressed! :(
StoppingTime
October 14th, 2011, 04:27 PM
Your life will turn around. No, it won't be easy, but you will get there.
The main thing on improving is to believe you can.
If you don't believe in yourself, then this may never change. I am not saying this to upset you, just to tell you so you know how to handle it.

Once you start believing in yourself that you are worth it, then you will see a change.
Good luck, and VM me if you need anything else!
Funkapotamus
October 14th, 2011, 04:57 PM
StoppingTime is spot on.

Believing and loving yourself is the very first step to getting back on your feet in social and confidence terms. If you don't love yourself you just won't ever feel that anyone else could do either. I also have some of the same issues, but I'm constantly working at it and that only means going up.

So that's what you need to do. Try and try and things can only improve. Sometimes they won't improve for a very long time. But I'll be damned, when they do improve, you'll be happier than you ever will. And believe me and yourself, IT WILL GET BETTER.
Shenron
October 14th, 2011, 08:06 PM
I agree with the other two posters on this. If you want it to get better, you have to believe it will get better. I have been depressed for a while now but I keep telling myself that it will turn around one day. Try and keep busy with some things to take your mind off of it.

If I can help in any way, please pm me.
Lawrence18
October 16th, 2011, 10:58 AM
thx guys, i hope it will get better :)