How do i get more privacy?

[BOSSPENGUIN]

hey everyone!! thanks for looking at my post. see i dont get barely any privacy it sucks. i get good grades i do good in school but when i come home i want time to myself and i dont get that my parents barge in and dont even knock. when i get home i like being in my boxer shorts only and just relaxing its nice to do that. but i cant cause my parents barge in and i cant masturbate in my room unless its 11pm at night cause they will barge in and i have to get up at 5:30 in the morning so that doesnt help. guys im willing to do anything for my privacy even if its by force i tried a couple days ago and got grounded for it!. but please help im desperate. how did you get privacy. im talking make shift locks anything!! please help

[SinisterMystery]

Talk to them. Ask for privacy. Tell them you need it. Tell them that you just want to be on your own... etc.

[PureReality]

^ agreed.

hey everyone!! thanks for looking at my post. see i dont get barely any privacy it sucks. i get good grades i do good in school but when i come home i want time to myself and i dont get that my parents barge in and dont even knock. when i get home i like being in my boxer shorts only and just relaxing its nice to do that. but i cant cause my parents barge in and i cant masturbate in my room unless its 11pm at night cause they will barge in and i have to get up at 5:30 in the morning so that doesnt help. guys im willing to do anything for my privacy even if its by force i tried a couple days ago and got grounded for it!. but please help im desperate. how did you get privacy. im talking make shift locks anything!! please help

With me, privacy just came with my age (minus my parents obsessively stalking my Facebook, but they're entitled to do that). Like what Charlie said, just talk to them about it. This is an unavoidable situation. Try masturbating when they aren't home, and you could always chill in your boxer shorts under the covers, of course.

But, yeah, talk to them. :yes:

[noturnback]

Yeah I have to agree with the others also

[Shenron]

Well, I actually bought a lock and put it on my door, but that was a bit extreme. I would talk to your parents and tell them that you think they are not giving you enough privacy. I am not sure how old you are but if you are 15 or older, you are at the age at which you should be treated more like an adult than a child. Now, of course, do not try and tell you parents how to raise you, that never goes over well. Just tell them that you would like a little more privacy. I would try talking to your dad alone first because he will likely understand where you are coming from. Just tell him that you would like to know that they trust you and by giving you some privacy it will help prove that.

Hope this helps, let me know if you need anything.

[PureReality]

Well, I actually bought a lock and put it on my door, but that was a bit extreme. I would talk to your parents and tell them that you think they are not giving you enough privacy. I am not sure how old you are but if you are 15 or older, you are at the age at which you should be treated more like an adult than a child. Now, of course, do not try and tell you parents how to raise you, that never goes over well. Just tell them that you would like a little more privacy. I would try talking to your dad alone first because he will likely understand where you are coming from. Just tell him that you would like to know that they trust you and by giving you some privacy it will help prove that.

Hope this helps, let me know if you need anything.

I couldn't have said it better myself.

[Sage]

Move out.

[Foamy]

Asking never hurt anyone. But Sage's idea is a little extreme.....

[Carlyle]

Sage's idea would work if you were of age and had the money.. You can always talk to them about it, tell them you want more time to yourself, ask for a lock, or for them to atleast knock before they come in. Maybe knocking isn't what you want, but its a start right? I talked to my mom about it and she had my step father put a lock on my door because my little brother barges in all the time, it helps. Good luck.

[Timmy93]

Do it in the shower

[Funkapotamus]

Asking could work, but it could backfire and arouse more suspicion. I reckon a door lock would do just fine. Asking for one would probably put them off being so intrusive.

[DerBear]

The only thing you can do is ask. BUT be mature about this situation listen to what they have to say back and then respond in a calm way, and if they say NO ask them why.

Just dont go all shouting and raging at there responses this well get you no where

[Kujiro]

Getting locks and stuff seems alittle extreme, it varies from parents to parents.
By the looks of it, its either they are very strict on you, or you may have done things in the past where they find it hard to let you be left alone.

Either way, talking about it in a matured manner and gaining the trust from them seems the best way to go.
If you are referring to masturbating privacy, then the best option is still the bathroom.

Good luck
*smile*

[atomsmasher]

Sit in a chair facing the door, masturbating stark naked. They'll knock next time.

[PureReality]

Move out.

This made me giggle. :lol:

[Funkapotamus]

Sit in a chair facing the door, masturbating stark naked. They'll knock next time.

Lmao. We have a winner :D

[TheMatrix]

Sit in a chair facing the door, masturbating stark naked. They'll knock next time.
That's one way to go about things :P

But seriously, sit down and have a face-to-face chat with them. Tell them that you feel that you do not have enough privacy. Assure them that you do not have malicious or illegal intent(which I sure hope you don't). If you must, research a little, and provide them with case studies or something to prove it.
Use this as an example: http://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.167.7878&rep=rep1&type=pdf

Good luck! :)

[cpr97]

i know its really awkward but like most the other ppl said just talk to you rparents n tell them you would like more privacy you dont gotta tell em why or go into detail they were ur age once im sure they will get the hint i talked to my parents bout it cuz they were the sameway would just barge in whenever they wanted after i talked to em they would just knock then wait a few seconds then open the door wether i answered or not but it atleast gave me warnin n a few seconds to scramble around if i needed to then my dad got me a new door with a lock bout 6 months ago so all is fine now but if i didnt talk to them n let em know i was at a age where i wanted/needed privacy n time for myself im sure they would still just be baargin in my room trust me our parents arent stupid they know what kids our ages do

[Derek951]

I know it's awkward, but gotta agree with the others. Only way to see if things will change is to talk to the parents. But even still, they might not understand. Good Luck.

[botwa]

I tried to "teach" my parents to respect my privacy.
They can't just stop immediately.
Try to talk to them, then put a reminder on your door to knock so when they rush to you they will face it and if they understand they will get used to it.
if they don't get that you need privacy then just put a lock. of course they can take it off but you can try anyway...

the last thing - don't knock when you enter their room. if they take the hint they will stop. if not.. well. you timetable of masturbation won't change.