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Chillswil
October 13th, 2011, 12:52 AM
Ok so I was dating this gril for like six months and then she just randomly broke up with me over a text and now I'm like depressed because I liked her a lot.I'm sure she still likes me and then two days later I texted her saying "what did I do wrong to make you brake up with me" and she just said "well I just don't like you that way anymore" when I read that I was like that's total bs. Then right when we broke up she started dating another guy (that I hate by the way) Then I asked her If we could stay friends and she said yes
Now she's not inviting me to my groups meetings on Friday (me and my friends go to see a movie). Sorry for the Long message. Tell me what you think about my situation and also I made this so I could blurt out my feelings.so just comment what you think about my situation. Thanks.
Patti
October 13th, 2011, 04:53 PM
She moved on.
LuckyLuke
October 13th, 2011, 06:38 PM
As Daniel has said, she's moved on my man and I'm sorry to say it but there's nothing you can do.
Best wishes and good luck.
Dabigdtc
October 13th, 2011, 07:54 PM
good luck dude but she has moved on for sure
secretly_secret
October 13th, 2011, 08:26 PM
So sorry. Text break ups are the worst. :(
Ambrosia
October 13th, 2011, 10:59 PM
It sounds like you were not what she was looking for. I know that it sound very cruel, and very wrong, but it is the truth. Take it from me, I know the story from front to back. You are very young and the chances of a relationship lasting very long is slim, simply because as teenagers you will get bored of each other quickly (The excitement can really be limited when you are young, dating at an older age makes things ten times easier on the both of you!). She probably got bored, which is common. Lots of girls (Not all) will find themselves slowly but surely boring of the person they are with and start unknowingly searching for someone else, which it seems happened with her. She wasn't going to break up with you without a back-up. That sucks, but it's life.
You will find someone else. She wasn't worth it, though, since she didn't even have the decency to break up with you in person. If she was so informal as that then you can defiantly do ten times better, believe me. You can very easily find someone who will actually care enough for you to try and make a relationship work instead of just tossing you out like yesterdays laundry without more than a small explanation.
And why wait for her to invite you? If they are your friends than ask them to tag along. Don't let some girl get in the way of your fun!!!
AmusedDJ
October 18th, 2011, 06:38 PM
ask her why she did
tylerd001
October 20th, 2011, 08:35 AM
Well what i can say about that and i know cause i was in the same situation before. But what i can say is that she has moved on and she doesnt want to be friends with you. But when she broke up with you and started dating the other guy, i can say that she was not interested in you and that she didnt want to date you or she broke up with you for another guy or she probably cheated on you. The reason why she is not inviting you to group meetings is probably because she doesnt want to see you anymore and/or she doesnt want you to know who she is dating. Trust me, i been in the same situation about 10 times.
Spook
October 20th, 2011, 08:43 AM
Ok so I was dating this gril for like six months and then she just randomly broke up with me over a text and now I'm like depressed because I liked her a lot.I'm sure she still likes me and then two days later I texted her saying "what did I do wrong to make you brake up with me" and she just said "well I just don't like you that way anymore" when I read that I was like that's total bs. Then right when we broke up she started dating another guy (that I hate by the way) Then I asked her If we could stay friends and she said yes
Now she's not inviting me to my groups meetings on Friday (me and my friends go to see a movie). Sorry for the Long message. Tell me what you think about my situation and also I made this so I could blurt out my feelings.so just comment what you think about my situation. Thanks.
It sounds-in my opinion- like she's some form of a gold diggger. Which means- she is looking for the best of what she can get at the moment. If she moved on that fast, I believe that she found someone she felt was better. Which in my opinion, is just wrong. From the way it looks, she wears her boyfriends like accessories- and doesn't have a care. Trust me, if she did that to you, she doesn't deserve you. You did nothing to deserve this, and especially- a breakup over text. Her lack of guts to tell you to your face sounds like she was guilty- or already had new plans--
Sorry you had to go through this, but you have to move on too. I know, from personal experience- sometimes it doesn't feel like you'll ever find another--but trust me, you will. There are thousands of fish in the sea--you just got a rotten one. :)
Dark Vamp
October 21st, 2011, 07:13 AM
Ok so I was dating this gril for like six months and then she just randomly broke up with me over a text and now I'm like depressed because I liked her a lot.I'm sure she still likes me and then two days later I texted her saying "what did I do wrong to make you brake up with me" and she just said "well I just don't like you that way anymore" when I read that I was like that's total bs. Then right when we broke up she started dating another guy (that I hate by the way) Then I asked her If we could stay friends and she said yes
Now she's not inviting me to my groups meetings on Friday (me and my friends go to see a movie). Sorry for the Long message. Tell me what you think about my situation and also I made this so I could blurt out my feelings.so just comment what you think about my situation. Thanks.
Hey, maybe she feels awkward inviting you since you two just broke up, give it some time, and you need time to to heal and grieve. I know its not easy to have to go through a break up but its part of life. Allow yourself to heal too.
Chillswil
October 22nd, 2011, 09:22 AM
Thanks for all the great anwsers
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