A little guilty/confused... HELP!

[lostandmisplaced]

To start off i'd like to say that I am at least bi-curious, but the thought of me with another man is disgusting. I do like looking at built men though. however the other night i spent the night at a friends house (who is straight) and i find him to be hot, and we slept in the same bed. In the middle of the night he put his arm around me in his sleep and to put it bluntly - i got aroused. so my hand wandered to his boxers and i rubbed his dick until it was hard. he was deep asleep the whole time. I didnt want to suck it i just liked touching it but the thing is right now i feel disgusted by it and my friend doesnt know i did anything. Am I gay? bi? straight? HELP?

[Ironic Infidel In England]

Probably curious. Ask your freind if he's bi/curious/gay. if he is, then you can try it again with him awake! (much more fun, and no guilt.) It is perfectaly normal to have these sort of feeling and dilemas during puberty, so don't feel guily if you turn out to be anything other than straight.

[Maverick]

That was wrong of you to do that to him while he was asleep. Don't ever do something like that again.

There's more to a relationship than just being turned on by guys. There's the emotional part, too.

In time you'll be more sure of your sexuality and be able to answer your question. Your hormones are raging and it causes you to feel are sorts of feelings.

[DestroyTheFuture]

thats not the smartest thing to tell people about...even people like us. (its basically one step down from rape)

in my opinion, you are not straight. i think that in order to be straight you should not be touching other guys for your own pleasure, and that thinking it as well.

but, you are probably bisexual (if you like girls too that is)

obviously if you dont like girls, then you are gay.

[bahari mtoto]

I can't really tell you what you are because you're in the middle of puberty and your hormones are out of control but at the moment in my opinion your Bi (closer to gay).

P.S don't freak out over your sexuality your family and friends will accept you no matter what you are.

[schrei jess]

I wouldnt compare that to rape, not that it was right, but rape? I think not.

At this point, it's not easy to say what you are. For the moment, just go with how you feel, and in time you'll know what you are. For now, you are curious, and there isnt anything wrong with that.

[grimlip]

Your probably just curious but you could ask him if he is then you could do it without the guilt. Did you ever think maybe he was just pretending to be asleep? Maybe he liked it.....