It's complicated.

[trter10]

Well get ready for an essay :P
Read color key please!

Sooooo there was this girl who added me on Facebook forever ago. Turns out she liked me. My friend (girl) didn't like her, and I sorta didn't either. So I went silent to her for a few months. Then my friend kinda-sorta asked me out. I was like "WHOA!" and accepted. We hardly ever talk, and I really want to just be best friends again, but just don't have the guts to talk about it. So now this girl tells me all this stuff and i know that she likes me.. A LOT. So now I am told she is suicidal because her life "sucks", and that I quote "am the only one who can fix it." Her mom found out about her suicidal thoughts and grounded her for SIX MONTHS. And if she's not better then her mom will send her to some sort of "boot camp". I mean this girl is CRAZY for me. So I just don't know what the heck to do.:eek:

WHITE = "girlfriend"
RED = Girl who likes me
Just so you won't get confused ;)

*EDIT*
Sorry, didn't know if this should be in friends or relationships forum. Move how you wish, mods!

[Kujiro]

Im sorry, but the illustration is too fragmented to understand, just a little fact finding..
You fell out with your girlfriend over a random person adding you on Facebook?
I may be missing something, but do you even know this girl whom added you?

I'd doubt any random would go so much into detail about mum sending her to boot camps and such, it does seem her suicidal tendencies are just a form of seeking attention.
Honestly if anyone whom really wants to die, it's firstly their choice they do what they want with it; and no they would not go round announcing what they intend to do.

Regardlessly do you like this Facebook friend? And as well consider if it's worth throwing your current relationship away for this person?
As far as I understand, it does seem your girlfriend is very affected in a jealous way to this new girl, and yes, it's normal for anyone.

It's good to weigh the odds before proceeding, but in my opinion i would ignore the attention seeking one.
The choice is yours..

Good luck
*smile*

[Giles]

Might just be my overly cynical attitude but I'd say that it isn't your problem to deal with. If you haven't encouraged this girls feelings towards you, by reciprocating or otherwise, then she's just interested in you like any other girl and probably craving your attention. Politely ignore her and/or tell her that you're not interested; likelihood of her actually being depressed, at least because of you, is very slim.

[Shenron]

Well, honestly, it is not your job to fix her life. It could very well be that she is telling you these things to get attention. It could also be true that these things are true. My advice would be to just ignore her, especially if you don't like her as a person in the first place. The other option would be to talk to her, but it seems as though she is a little obsessed so talking to her could backfire.

[EpicCookie]

Well, honestly, it is not your job to fix her life. It could very well be that she is telling you these things to get attention. It could also be true that these things are true. My advice would be to just ignore her, especially if you don't like her as a person in the first place. The other option would be to talk to her, but it seems as though she is a little obsessed so talking to her could backfire.

You took the words right out of my mouth!

[Christheman]

break up with your girlfriend cause you want to be best friends and if you like this suicidal girl go out with her

[DerBear]

Please don't bump old threads. This was from 2011. The bump limit for this forum is 2 months.