Serious confusion right now

[Cybercode]

K i'm straight and i like girls, i'm even trying to get a relationship with a girl, but a good friend of mine (guy) has been talking to me lately about experimenting and it went from that to going all out (me on bottom) and idk if i want to or not. i have nothing against gays, but i just don't want to loose my virginity to gay sex. the first time he talked about it i felt really uncomfortable at the idea. i'm just really confused and i don't know what to do! please help!

[anonymous53]

So tell him you're not comfortable. That is all you need to do. He'll respect you.

[Funkapotamus]

Don't do anything you're uncomfortable with, it'll only come back and cause you grief later. Stick to what you know and are comfortable.

[Tristin.]

dont do it if your not confortable, tell him this, tell him that maybe in the future you may, but right now, your not comfortable

[Shenron]

If you are not comfortable with it, then tell him that. Do not let him talk you into something you are not ready for, you will regret it.

[Blind]

If you dont feel comfortable then just simply say "No I dont fee comfortable doing that." You dont need to give into peer pressure that can sometimes lead to worse things. Im sure he will understand. Not everyone wants to do that kind of stuff in fact it scares some. So really it's your choice and if you choose not to do it you dont have to do it.

[Sosaku]

(I'll admit, when I first read your post, I had a feeling that you're making a hypothical situation, just to see an answer, and I still kinda have that feeling... anyway, I'll say what I have to say about it if it is true)

My roommate is gay, and he is uncomfortable with anal sex, now i know that has like, NOTHING to do with this, but this is a way I'll explain the first thing. Now I'm not saying you should do it, if you feel you shouldn't, DON'T DO IT!!! (up to you)

Anyway! If you're just uncomfortable, well think of it this way. (lets say you're scared of spiders...) If someone you cared for, was so terrified of spiders that they were frozen in place, and could barely speak, and there was a huge Brown Wolf Spider (big brown scary thing) in their house, would you go kill/capture it even if you yourself was scared? Everyday, people do things they don't feel comfortable doing. Maybe he asked you, because he wants to know if he is gay, maybe he asked you, because he trusts you. (As I said before, if you don't want to, DON'T DO IT!!!)

However, on the other hand, you shouldn't be forced to do something because he is your friend...(if so, i'd probably NOT be depressed all the time haha) If you don't want to have sex for the first time with a guy, then don't! Its your body, just say no... Worst he can do then, is drug you, tie you down, then rape you, but then you could send him to prison, then he'd REALLY learn if he were gay...

anyway, use your own judgement on whether you should do something or not...