NobodysCupOf Tea
October 12th, 2011, 02:54 PM
When it comes to having sex for the first time, i've always been a firm believer of 'i have to be in a relationship, i have to be in love'...
But what if i'm emotionally and physically ready for it, and have someone i want to do it with.. but we're not in a relationship and never will be?
Does that make it wrong, or any less special, or me a slag?
I've 'messed around' with him before, but he's alot older than me (10 years) and has finally said that we should meet up..
Now i really want to, and it dosnt make it a 'booty call' cus ive said im a virgin and that i won't do anything with him.
But i like him, and trust him, and im ready. Is that a good enough basis to 'loose it'... or does everyone think that i would be making a HUGE mistake?
But what if i'm emotionally and physically ready for it, and have someone i want to do it with.. but we're not in a relationship and never will be?
Does that make it wrong, or any less special, or me a slag?
I've 'messed around' with him before, but he's alot older than me (10 years) and has finally said that we should meet up..
Now i really want to, and it dosnt make it a 'booty call' cus ive said im a virgin and that i won't do anything with him.
But i like him, and trust him, and im ready. Is that a good enough basis to 'loose it'... or does everyone think that i would be making a HUGE mistake?