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[ShatteredGlass]

He tells me he hates the sound of my voice. To listen not to speak. And I told him that I AM listening I AM he's just not making any sense. But he hates the sound of my voice, which doesn't make much sense. It's more comfortable this way anyway. At least I know what to expect. He will hit me, he will get angry, and I won't tell. At least this way I won't get my heart broken, it's too hard to break.

[StoppingTime]

If this is how you're treated, dont't be with him. He obviously doesn't truly like or respect you. If you feel this way as well, what is compelling you to stay with him? You are too good for him, and he doesn't deserve you.

[ShatteredGlass]

Thanks you're sweet but I'm pretty sure it's safer this way

[StoppingTime]

Thanks you're sweet but I'm pretty sure it's safer this way


Why? Why does he deserve you, if he does this? (Please tell me if I'm missing/judging wrong)

[ShatteredGlass]

Deserve? Not everyone's exaclty a prize. And it hurts but the pain is only temporary, loneliness can last forever.

[StoppingTime]

What I meant was that he treats you badly, and you deserve better than him. Do you really feel like this is a guy you want to spend the rest of you life with? If not, then I wouldn't humor him by staying with him. Waiting for the right person takes time, but when you find them, you will feel so much better. It's your decision though, don't do anything without a lot of thought.

[ShatteredGlass]

It's good advice, thank you mister time

[StoppingTime]

Your Welcome :) And if you ever feel like you want to talk, just PM me.

good Luck once again!

[Mike8492]

StoppingTime is right. My father was abusive to my mother and my step-dad was abusive to me when I was a kid. We both ran from it... stood up to it. I learned that I rather be free and alone, because being with someone who hurts me is worse. I know how it feels to be alone but I assure you its temporary. So be free, you'll be amazed by what you find.

[Amaryllis]

Deserve? Not everyone's exaclty a prize. And it hurts but the pain is only temporary, loneliness can last forever.

Loneliness is temporary. All you have to do is find someone else.

[itsthat0n3kid]

leave him.
he doesnt deserve you.
this coming from a guy, saying that i hate when other guys treat girls like shit. it isnt right.

[Love.Hate]

Loneliness doesn't last for an eternity, you aren't happy being treated like this. It's not "for the best" you need to get out of the relationship if he treats you like this, you do deserve better :)

[Shenron]

If you are afraid of being alone, then I get why you are enduring his abuse. You need to think about yourself though. These types of things often escalate to more serious situations. I would advise you to get out of the relationship. He is not good for you, and you deserve better. I hope you will heed my advice. If you ever need any help please do not hesitate to PM me. :)

[ShatteredGlass]

Thank you guys for all your support. I know it mind sound all wrong but I just don't think I can leave him he's all I have right now.

[StoppingTime]

He is, but that isn't a good thing. Would you rather have someone who treats you badly, or no one for a little while, and find someone better?

[ShatteredGlass]

He's the best I've gotten...

[StoppingTime]

You answered your own problem.

Gotten.
That is literally saying you don't want to ever do something different because you are afraid you won't do any better.
But you will. It may take time, but it will be worth it.

[Slytherin_Prince]

ShatteredGlass,

If he is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated, there is no rational explanation for staying with him.
You may think he's one of a kind, but let me tell you, if he is genuinely doing these things, he's about as bad as they come.
You owe it to yourself to listen to what your brain says, not what your heart says, and you should do what is best for you.

And as Amarylis said, Loneliness is temporary.
I personally don't find loneliness to be a bad thing at all, really.
For that matter, the only one I could ever really trust is myself, so loneliness would seem preferable to me.
My own issues aside, it is beyond a doubt that you should choose for your well-being, not for your well-feeling. Trust me, it will eventually get much better if you take this tough decision now. And of course, if you need support, I think we will all be eager to provide that support.

Also, what I was talking about earlier:
Loneliness is temporary. All you have to do is find someone else.

Wise words from a wise woman. The lady has a point.

Most sincerely,
Robert.

[Solvez18]

time is right, u can do better if u believe