What Should I Do? And How?

[Devonte]

Hey,
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 years now and we're really close. We have made out and small stuff like that, we want to move to the next step, but im not sure what to do first. We have done thing with our clothes on like rubbing eachother and it feels really good. I was thinking of fingering her, or giving her oral sex but I'm not totally sure what to do. Help me out please!

[Maverick]

Request move to relationships and dating.

Anyway, communicate with her and tell her that you would like to move to the next step. You've known her for two years shouldn't be too hard now to talk to her.

[hashbrown]

i agree with anthony u should ask her to move to next step like try and ask for a h/j or oral and try to do sumthing with her.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

I don't really think your ready for sex (intercourse OR oral) if you're this nervous about what to do. Your best bet is probably to wait till you're more comfortable, OR only go as far as mutual masturbation (hj/fingering) because then there is obviously NO chance of pregnancy or std's (cuz you can still get std's from oral sex; herpes on you MOUTH? EWWWW!!).

[Everglow]

I mean, if you think you're ready..by all means..do it...but if not..hold off

[Antares]

well if you are like 13 or 14 no
umm...
i think that maybe you should just do hj/ and fingering naked (okay well maybe not) but make sure you are all sterile. we dont want any bad infections goin around btwn you two. and maybe that will satisfy you. well it really should.

[Just...Will]

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