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RyanKo
October 10th, 2011, 03:59 AM
I have not make sex with girl but my ex girlfriend have the oral sex for me. So, am I still a virgin or not? :what:

Thank you for your answer.

Quick_Sylver
October 10th, 2011, 04:04 AM
That depends on who you ask.
To me, you're still a virgin unless you've had consensual penetrative sex. To someone else, oral sex invalidates your virginity. So it's your personal opinion that tells this question.

Stretch
October 10th, 2011, 04:04 AM
No, you are still a virgin.

RyanKo
October 10th, 2011, 04:25 AM
Cool, Thank you so much for your help!

Donkey
October 10th, 2011, 10:04 AM
Teen Sexuality -> Puberty For Boys

Trinity_15
October 10th, 2011, 11:36 AM
That depends on who you ask.
To me, you're still a virgin unless you've had consensual penetrative sex. To someone else, oral sex invalidates your virginity. So it's your personal opinion that tells this question.

exactly. to me u r a virgin

zerosix22
October 10th, 2011, 12:45 PM
you're still a virgin because u still have not made any sexual intercouse.


sexual intercourse-commonly refers to the act in which a male's penis enters a female's vagina for the purposes of sexual pleasure or reproduction.

goug16
October 10th, 2011, 01:06 PM
you're still a virgin in most peoples opinions

DerBear
October 10th, 2011, 01:08 PM
Still a virgin

John.Smith
October 10th, 2011, 02:48 PM
Virgin

Rubber
October 10th, 2011, 03:38 PM
Yeah your a virgin still. Anal, you lose it. Thats in most peoples views.

Giles
October 10th, 2011, 06:13 PM
That's all up to you really. Some people would consider that a loss of virginity and others don't consider anything other than vaginal (anal only in homosexual relationships presumably) penetration.

Fedex
October 10th, 2011, 06:34 PM
Its sex, oral sex but still sex so you are not a virgin anymore.

That what my teacher of human development says, also doctors from my university said the same.

Also an expert on that topic thinks that, Pam Stenzel.

digzchickz
October 10th, 2011, 11:34 PM
Meh, IMO you are still a virgin, actually I didn't feel like I truly lost it until I had sex without a condom either.

Oly1324
October 11th, 2011, 01:08 AM
NoPe ur a virgin

Funkapotamus
October 11th, 2011, 06:13 AM
Intercourse is classified as losing our virginity amongst most people and probably everyone in their teens.

Young Wolf
October 13th, 2011, 10:45 AM
Your a virgin. Intercourse is classed as penetration to the slightest degree - oral doesnt count

EdibleAutopsy24
October 13th, 2011, 11:09 AM
You're still a virgin man. But that's no big deal at all.:D

Kujiro
October 13th, 2011, 11:50 AM
Technically you are right to say you have lost your sexual innocence, but as far as it is, virginity is how you percieve it to be.

Everyone would have different opinions when it comes to this, as for me, i'd never looked at virginity is something a guy has to lose in the first place.

By actual terms, virginity is the breaking of the hymen of the female's vagina.
But guys dont really have a hymen to break right?

Quoting myself sometime back,

Hence if is virginity classified as sexual purity? or is virginity something thats classified only to females whom has not had the hymen torn.

I have heard this article about the guy who is married to his wife had sex for years, never manage to get a child, a visit to the doctor, the doctor says shes a virgin, as her hymen is not torn. as his penis was alittle too... yes short.

Hence it truly depends how you want to classify virginity.
But i believe in the modern defination is having sex = losing your virginity.
If you are going by that defination, then yes you have lost it.
If you are going by medical terms, you dont really have a virginity to lose.


So do you consider yourself still a virgin?

Shenron
October 13th, 2011, 12:54 PM
That depends on who you ask.
To me, you're still a virgin unless you've had consensual penetrative sex. To someone else, oral sex invalidates your virginity. So it's your personal opinion that tells this question.

There is your answer. There are so many different opinions if what constitutes losing your virginity. Honestly, what matters at the end of the day is what you think. Do you think that you have lost your virginity? Virginity is synonymous with inexperience and innocence. Make the decision for yourself, it's better than letting other people tell you what you are.

noturnback
October 13th, 2011, 04:41 PM
I consider anyone a virgin unless they stuck their thing in her thing

EpicCookie
October 13th, 2011, 07:27 PM
I say say your still a virgin till you enter a butt or a vagina.

youwonthegame
October 13th, 2011, 07:34 PM
Some would say, you're still a virgin, others would call you a "half-virgin," but what really matters is what you think. Obviously you're not totally innocent anymore, but you haven't gone "all the way," and so you haven't entirely lost your virginity in my opinion.

AlvinMario
October 14th, 2011, 10:54 PM
i think you're still virgin

evenr96
October 15th, 2011, 11:51 AM
ut still a virgin til the moment u stick ur cock in a pussy or an asshole