i know i shoulnt have...

[ReasonsForWeeping]

i started cutting again but heres my reason i hadnt cut for up to 2 months today my ex best friend logged on her bfs acc and was telling me while pretending to her bf tell me he loves making me feel bad and guilty b/c i kinda liked him she asked me if liked him i said yes so later that day she comes over yelling at me telling me im a bitch b/c i kinda liked her bf ... i went to her for everything now it feels like i have no one again and it hurt so bad the only way to make it stop was to cut it was the only way... :(

[ShatteredGlass]

Cutting is not the only way. You shouldn't let a temporary problem cause you to mark your skin permanently. It was underhanded of her and that wasn't really the way to go about it. She'll probably get over it or they'll probably break up and then she'll get over it but as you know you shouldn't have you should take some steps so next time you don't

[Jupiter]

Maybe you should get an animal to talk to. I know, I know, it sounds stupid.. but sometimes, it helps a LOT.

[ReasonsForWeeping]

Cutting is not the only way. You shouldn't let a temporary problem cause you to mark your skin permanently. It was underhanded of her and that wasn't really the way to go about it. She'll probably get over it or they'll probably break up and then she'll get over it but as you know you shouldn't have you should take some steps so next time you don't



i know ur probably right thanks :]

Maybe you should get an animal to talk to. I know, I know, it sounds stupid.. but sometimes, it helps a LOT.


i have 2 cats i talk to them sometimes it kinda helps

------Please don't double post! =D--------

[Funkapotamus]

i have 2 cats i talk to them sometimes it kinda helps

See this is why I really want a dog. Pure nonjudgmental quality time. I reckon a pet would be better than a therapist.

[secretly_secret]

I don't have anything. Just a doll. :(

[ReasonsForWeeping]

I don't have anything. Just a doll. :(

you have us VT ppl too help you :yes:

[secretly_secret]

Yes I do. :) You guys are great.

[StoppingTime]

You know what, don't beat yourself up about it. 2 months is amazing! People have slip ups, they we're not perfect. It's fine that you did this, but of course, don't get back into the habit. Like others said, just talking it out, with a pet, or anyone or anything, is helpful. Try spending time with people, IM, text, or anything you can to interact with them, so you aren't alone, and don't cut. It is hard, but you will get there again. 2 days will turn into weeks soon enough, and take it from there.
You can do it.


Good Luck,
StoppingTime/Steve

[ReasonsForWeeping]

thats the thing ive never been able to make it past 2 months

[ryantombs]

question... (please no one get on me for this im going somewhere with it)
do you want to stop completely/ stop for more then two months

[StoppingTime]

You'll get there. It isn't an east feat, and that's fine. But you will do it. As long as you believe that you can do it, then you can. But if you don't, then your more than likely to fail.
That is the key to stopping any addiction, believing in yourself, nobody can do it for you.

[ryantombs]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dPsnqwmn21g

if you want to stop bad enough you will watch this 9 minute video
it can potenially change your life and any one who watches it it inspired me with other tthings believe me (other people watch it to please try to spread this video)
if you want to stop bad enough you will listen and truely listen to this man and do what he says there is a part two also
just trust me
Love,
Ryan

[StoppingTime]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dPsnqwmn21g

if you want to stop bad enough you will watch this 9 minute video
it can potenially change your life and any one who watches it it inspired me with other tthings believe me (other people watch it to please try to spread this video)
if you want to stop bad enough you will listen and truely listen to this man and do what he says there is a part two also
just trust me
Love,
Ryan

I don't think any video will change people's minds on cutting..... but to each their own.

[Amaryllis]

Sweetheart, cutting isn't a coping mechanism. It only makes things worse. Sooner or later, you will regret it. It will hold you back from life, from people and from doing what you love. It does nothing but destroy your life. Ever heard of those drug addict stories? The lives ruined by it? People who could have been great, destroyed? That's like self-harm. There are other alternatives. We feel alone all the time but we're actually not. All we have to do is reach out to the right people. You are never alone.

Love,
Faith and Trust

[ReasonsForWeeping]

the sad is i know all of that but toay is day 2 of no self harm so far soo good

[StoppingTime]

the sad is i know all of that but toay is day 2 of no self harm so far soo good

Congratulations! Keep it up, you'll get there! If you ever need to talk, I'm here, and so is everyone else, we are always here for you.

[ReasonsForWeeping]

this site has helped me so much :3 thanks for all the support